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What I feel sometimes becomes MOTIVATION to improve further.

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Homo sapien., Jan 16, 2024.

  1. Homo sapien.

    Homo sapien. Fapstronaut

    This is screenshot of moderators message they sent me...
    https://imgur.com/a/yi7pupX
    My next reply is on page 2 down there...Watch what AT reply to such stuff...
     
    Last edited: Jan 19, 2024
  2. Homo sapien.

    Homo sapien. Fapstronaut

    AaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.......
    Why they damn deleted my post..
    AaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaAaaaaaaaaa

    They thought I'd stop watching him this way! No one would actually!
    BTW let it go!
    #Jumma Mubaarak
    Recite Surah Kahf
    Keep me in your prayers because if a Brother remembers his brother in prayer it is too good.
     
  3. Homo sapien.

    Homo sapien. Fapstronaut

    Reply from AT, what he said about this was :emoji_crossed_swords:...
     
  4. Homo sapien.

    Homo sapien. Fapstronaut

    @1YearToGo, did you witness what just happened here?
    It's heartbroken!
     
  5. Homo sapien.

    Homo sapien. Fapstronaut

     
  6. 1YearToGo

    1YearToGo Fapstronaut

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    Exactly, that's a great way to put it.
     
  7. Homo sapien.

    Homo sapien. Fapstronaut

    Title: Perfectionism's Paralysis: Hindering Your Potential for the Sake of Precision

    Description: Sometimes we don't take small steps as we don't consider it worthwhile either. We just want to be ideal as social influences etc makes us think so.
    Example: You are feeling boredom as we all fight it and then we don't even try to just have an overview of the book as we don't consider it doing. We consider a day when we will start by waking up early then having exercise then C and only l then comes the D...No! It is not the only way to have our hands on Activity D after passing through A, B and C.
    And look, we start using mobile phones even if we are on our bed and bag there on our shoulders and hands not that clean but we start using it but the point is that we can open the folder of past papers or a book or an outline or anything then and there without waiting for having on your study room with all the necessary gear provided. So, consider reading a book even if you are in your bed, clothes are not changed and the study table is not there if you use one etc and jump on stuff Simply and easily, just like we start using a mobile phone without any preparations.
    Conclusion: To sum it up, sometimes directly opening a book and then just reading the headings and important pages of the book may work cause doing just a simple way would be worth more at the month's end rather than having nothing done and leaving yourself on the mercy of social media and blah blah you know well all that.
    If you are a business man then reading a book for better ideas may be a better start rather than considering a whole project to start your work with.
    You can synchronise it according to what you consider doing in life.
    Phenomenon: The phenomenon or agenda behind this is to make the less interesting stuff a little easier and thus easily replaceable and approachable than usual so that you Do not step into the world of limitless desires and attraction on social media. It will make the entry of a book in your day or time before a sticky phone with High-speed Internet would reach you.
    *I'm not that mature about to stuff that I have mentioned so, I will work on these things as well. انشاءاللہ

    I'll also write about the way of thinking/approach that will prevent you from even touching your mobile phone. If anyone considers it helpful, he may tell,
    because as I write I feel a fear that may be it is helpful or just a unconcerned area to talk about.
    Request
    Look, I can do it elsewhere but Im here so if even a single person read it he gets the benefit so consider sharing ideas with me as well. I want to hear you people. Pls do reply it will motivate me to open NoFap and get and give a good idea. Because I'm here to get help as well. Do not worry we are anonymous don't need to shy expressing thoughts.
    فی امان اللہ
     
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  8. Homo sapien.

    Homo sapien. Fapstronaut

    Thank-you and how are you doing?
     
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  9. Homo sapien.

    Homo sapien. Fapstronaut

    This includes:
    1. Understanding the harmful impacts of porn addiction.

    2. Acknowledging the addiction.
    3. Seeking repentance and Turning to Allah.
    4. Foowing expert Advice.
    5. Filling Time with positive Habits.
    6. Fasting and Prophetic remedy.

    (Includes)​
    • Book named "The Disease and the Cure" from Imam Ibn Qayyim.
    • Medicinal advise i.e. Tumiric or curcument.
    7. Be patient.​
    Jihad bin Nafs Mubaarak!
     
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  10. Homo sapien.

    Homo sapien. Fapstronaut

  11. Homo sapien.

    Homo sapien. Fapstronaut

    At the end of the day something that is your true companion in loneliness is your gear that helps you achieve your goals.
    For a student a book and a pen. And you will have to learn to use them. First you are alone then you will meet people then you miss them. This is world, these are my reflections. Aaand one thing is imp to know, when you support someone you become unforgettable. So go help others and you'll find people around you.
    It is third night of Ramadan 2024 and raining as well. Biggest truth of the world is the One Allah. I know I'm saying is religious but never forget the truth gives relief and it is God is One. Loneliness creates mental pain and helplessness, it's ultimate solution is peace with your ownself casue I believe no one is guaranteed in this world but the God. And God is One. Rest also make friends and companion in a good sense. But I tell you, I'm writing this even I have people to talk with but sometimes I feel comfortable only by sharing something out there and not woth people I'm in contact with because they'll not care it anymore. They shall take is as usual.

    Never stop quest for the Truth!
    *Because we can die at any moment, and dying without knowing the truth is the ultimate adversity for a person. As we will be questioned for what we are awarded: wisdom!
    Live long. Live prosperous!
     
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  12. HenryforwardV2

    HenryforwardV2 Fapstronaut

    Thanks for sharing your wisdom. You'll get there friend.
     
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  13. Homo sapien.

    Homo sapien. Fapstronaut

    Henry people who care are very fewer. Fewer to such an extent that I'm putting everything out of this slaved and weak mind within this skull alone. Life is like either get stronger to win or consequences, consequences, consequences, consequences, consequences,consequences, consequences, consequences, consequences, consequences,consequences, consequences, consequences, consequences, consequences! I shall put my best afterall. Pain is an illusion and struggle is inevitable.
     
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