Virgin @ 27

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Bemybest, Nov 30, 2018.

  1. Bemybest

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    I feel lonely everyday. My life is such that every moment I think and fantasize about girls. This is biggest trigger and biggest reason of dissapointmmet throughout the whole day.
     
  2. phwrancesco

    phwrancesco Fapstronaut

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    if i was in you i would hire an escort
     
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  3. Bemybest

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    I am considering that. But i wanted to experience the feeling of falling in love with someone.
     
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  4. install tinder, everyone does that
     
  5. Bemybest

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    Did that...but it is kind of more depressing when you don't get any matches.
     
  6. phwrancesco

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    Thats why you are a virgin man, right because of that. This " finding the right one " thing is killing a lot of young men out there.
     
  7. Headspace

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    In general you could be right, but in this context, right here, I respectfully disagree. He didn't say he wanted to fall in love with "the right one", but with "someone". This doesn't sound like an unrealistic attitude to me.
     
  8. futurewoman

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    Hello bemybest. Im also a virgin still young g like you but im 25. I also feel lonely but had some woman in my years but from time to time struggled with that pornaddiction. I can say that I really looking forward to get some real attractive woman in my life. I donˋt wanna obejctify them. Cause i love Girls eyes smile and Nice smell of perfume.
    If you wanna talk please write here or send me a pm. Whats your story? Have you had many girlfriends?

    I had a period when i socialized a lot with girls. I had very good responsen. Girls love me. I promise that girls Will love you also.
     
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  9. KennyKenny123

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    If you're ugly. Chances are new people won't accept you. Unless they look into your personality. I'm just saying. There's a lot of virgin ugly men out there. And you're not alone. You don't really have to search for a girl as if it's your purpose of life. Search for your true purpose of life. Travel around the world, do basic hobbies like reading to gain knowledge, and be socialize by volunteering in public activities.
     
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  10. Bemybest

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    I don't consider myself ugly. That is the worst perspective I have heard. I have seen "ugly" men have girlfriends. I have got the looks, sense of humor , money etc everything a girl could look for as far as I believe . But in school and college I lacked confidence as I was kinny and weak. But now when I am fine looking and well built I don't get the opportunity to hang out with girls.

    My whole day I spend procrastinating and feeling sad about myself. I keep on doing this bullshit to myself. How can become happy and joyful everyday? How do enjoy my time on Earth and not waste thinking about things I don't have.
     
  11. Bemybest

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    Movies and TV shows are things that are an escape route from my sadness. Otherwise when I am working then too I don't feel that depressed. But sometimes or rather on most days I don't feel like getting up from bed .why am I so weak?

    I have an very important 4-6 months ahead where I need to study for competitive exams to become a officer. But I am struggling with loneliness.
     
  12. If I were you I'd ignore @phwrancesco. He's being stupid!
     
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  13. Seems like you're in competition with @phwrancesco to the dumbest thing on this thread. Bloody hell!
     
  14. KennyKenny123

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    It's straight up facts cmon. You can't just go up to a girl and say i like you. The first thing she'll judge is your face then your personality. And even if your face is nice then your personality is unknown or shit.
    Then how can you get her to like him?
     
  15. It's not, it ridiculous nonsense... Sorry

    My questions to you are: What makes an attractive face an attractive face? And why is it attractive?
     
  16. phwrancesco

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    @Rio no man, not at all. Keeping virginity forever can be very dangerous for your mental health and can create some mental block very difficult to overcome.

    The quicker he solves this thing, the better is for him.
     
  17. Sounds like your a straight normal man then
    LOL
     
  18. KennyKenny123

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    Pimple/Acne Free, no moles, pinkish red lips, clear blue eyes(for e.g.), narutal good looker? Idk? Hey how about you just search at google "ugly people". That'll be better. Also, i didn't say he needed to be handsome, just not ugly.
     
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  19. KennyKenny123

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    OP admitted himself that he had the thought of getting a prostitute. I can't see what's wrong then. Prostitutes are meant to serve man/woman sexually. If OP can't handle being a virgin anymore, then why not hire a prostitute?
     
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  20. j0rdi3

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    Bemybest, I'm going to make this really simple to understand, and I swear that it's true. Stop your preoccupation with getting laid and start focusing on bettering yourself for when the right girl comes around. She WILL come and she WILL add a lot of value to your life but you also need to add value to her's. Be proud of the fact that you're a virgin; be proud of the fact that you didn't waste your first time on some hooker or some slutty girl who's affection meant nothing to you. Trust me, you will regret paying for sex for the rest of your life and one day you will end up having to tell your wife or gf. Being a virgin makes you no less a man than any other man..

    You're going to get laid eventually and it will be awesome but you need to let it happen naturally and not go to some hooker like some of the morons on this thread might suggest.

    Best of luck man
     
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