So you’ve seen the sorry state of the dating scene and download tinder as a semi-valid option. You match with girls, they’re all the same. You know the type; entitled, sexualised, not needing a bio because they’re the prize and looks alone is enough to hook 90% of men on tinder. She has 100 matches a day and a plethora of options to choose from. Now, with nothing to go by but a few pics or a couple of nothing words in her bio; you have to come up with an opener that is perfectly poignant. Witty, showing personality, masculinity, non-neediness - whilst knowing nothing about the girl. A simple “hey” or “how are you?” Is suicide. She already has hundreds of such message and will not bat an eyelid. You conjure something or recycle a chat up line that was received somewhat decently in the past. She doesn’t reply. You try another girl...this one does. A simple “haha” or “that’s funny”. A response that’s almost a non-response. She knows her worth - she doesn’t need to try; her stock couldn’t be higher. If she’s a 7/10 or more, she’s effectively God in the online dating realm. You should be grateful that she even typed a couple of words. She felt you were worth those 5 seconds of her life. She’s waiting for your next move, and you have no idea what to say. Waiting is inaccurate. She doesn’t give a shit; dozens flooding her inbox and you’re already forgotten. This process repeats itself - you have to dig deep to find another witty engaging line; not realising that you’re talking to the sexiest wall in the land. No personality for she doesn’t need one. No substance because society dictates that curves and cleavage triumph all. Soon enough, you give up. Or settle for a 6 or below who knows her position in the dating marketplace. Porn puts an arm around your lonely shoulder; porn can give you access to these women in ways you’re clearly not going to experience IRL anytime soon. Delete tinder guys. It leads to the loathing of society and your position within it. I have relapsed several times in the past in this manner.