Online dating is nonsense. Allready because you actually dont know if she really is that good looking. I dated girls from the net: they all didnt look as good as on the pics. Second: we aint what we write, even when we`re honest, the impression we create isnt the impression we would give if we would be in front of the other.... The competition is artifically higher then in real life. While online dating is supposed to make it "easier" it doesnt: its the oposite cause you have litteraly hundreds that compete with you at the same time. Like in a nightclub, just even worse. Thats why i suggest to approach women at daylight, alone, sober, on the streets: there you can show her how alpha-non-needy-masculine and shit you are, by simply having the balls to do so: cause each women knows that even the biggest loser on earth is able to write a wanna-be-seductive message in the internet. And even the worst looking people is able to make one or two pictures on which they look good. Girls know as well that all those guys in the nightclubs just have a big mouth because of the ten beers in their head and the peer-pressure ("yeah man i`ll totally do her"). So: if you aint really THE man, chances are she either finds you as creepy as the whole rest, or puts you in the friendzone. A good looking girl NEVER EVER needs tinder. Neither a girl without "issues". Girls that are using such shit are either girls with big big problems or not attractive at all. This is - unfortunatley - how it is. Now you can spend your lifetime by waiting for the exception. The cute girl that has no issues that is not a fake account and that wants you and exactly only you. Good luck PS: for everyone who doesnt understand why girls are as stressy as they are (and oh yes they are) i higly recommend to make yourself a fake account (and if its only on FB). Not even an ambitious one, use pictures of two different girls etc. The creeps dont get it anyway trust me... One must see how akward guys act, to understand women.