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Strong urges after a few weeks of NoFap normal ?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Mickeytheking, Jun 24, 2018.

  1. Mickeytheking

    Mickeytheking Fapstronaut

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    It has been a few weeks since I joined NoFap and have not PMO’d. I did have a wet dream but that doesn’t count.

    Anyhow, the urges lately are so crazy strong. I have not relapsed, but afraid I might give into them and somehow justify it. Usually I convince myself it’s healthy, helps me sleep, or it’s only a one thing — not really an addiction.

    Anyhow, is it normal for one to have a surge of urges after a few weeks of abstaining ? When will they stop ?
     
  2. Mitness

    Mitness Fapstronaut

    Yeah, it's normal..


    It helped and still helps me a lot, when i really have strong urges, to make a mantra of all the reasons why I don’t want to do it. And, as a craving for drugs, alcohol or a porn related thought or image comes up to my mind I count from 1 to 6 and backward and visualizing the numbers. I just count and visualize as long as I need to get rid of the porn images or thoughts. This does two things.. Namely, it get's your mind of the urge when you do it consistently and... it helps your brain make need pathways not related to substance abuse (rewiring). I really noticed that after 3 weeks of consistently doing this, the cravings began to weaken... And afterward, when the cravings are gone, i do full the mantra 6 times.. And if that not helps, and i'm at home, i jump under the ice cold shower. It's such a shock to the body and mind that in 90 percent of the time i cant even think about it haha.. And if even that dont help me, i will go run as long as i need. Last time i needed to run i kept on going for 25 kilometer hahaha.

    So the other things i do to deal with the urges are..
    Hard Solutions, Easy Life - Easy Solutions - Hard Life
     
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  3. Mickeytheking

    Mickeytheking Fapstronaut

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    Thanks so much ... I plan to incorporate some of your suggestions. I plan on beating this addiction...
     
  4. I have urges at 300+days I just know how to handle them and walk away before I do something ,
     
  5. Mickeytheking

    Mickeytheking Fapstronaut

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    I suppose the urges will be with me for a long time, but recognizing that I can just walk away or take a cold shower/meditate etc. are just ways to take back control. Appreciate the support and congrats on 300+ days.
     

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