Stop claiming that porn is fake

Even if what you're saying is true, that the majority of porn is amateur, I don't think that proves society is any more or less depraved or our "collective ethos" is decaying or whatever. People have always been into voyeurism/exhibitionism and they always will be. Honestly, companies "producing" porn somehow feels a lot more depraved to me than individuals putting amateur content on onlyfans or something.

 

It’s choreography and too perfect. Real sex has some tediousness to it and porn ignores that. It’s a portrayal of sex that prioritises the male pov and this isn’t realistic. It’s making men bad lovers in bed

 

I agree.. also, even the studio porn is real… people are really having sex. Just because they exaggerate on camera doesn’t mean it’s fake… sex is happening. It is not robots on camera, the fact is it is humans having sex

 

They might technically be having sex, but it's not comparable to reality except on a semantic level. Porn, like any movie really, uses fancy angles, lighting, editing etc to hide the fact it's all made up of scenes and segments filmed out of order and then spliced together in an editing room after the fact.

The main giveaways for this are how the men and women act/react in the scenes. Take how long the man lasts in porn scenes - sometimes they will use a chemical that numbs sensation so he feels nothing or they will film the different positions separately so he doesn't need to last all that time without ejaculating. Meanwhile the woman is always ready to go within a minute, which for many women is not possible, they need extensive foreplay to get ready for penetrative sex, and some women find it very difficult to orgasm that way compared to other methods.

 

I remember watching a Netflix documentary that showed that an entire porn movie took around 5 days to film. The movie was around 25 minutes long. I think one reason it took so long was that the guy in it kept arguing with the director and walked off the set several times.

 

for sure, yea I agree with you on these points you mentioned

I just agreed with OP because I know for me personally, if someone told me porn was fake or pointed out the exaggerations… that it never helped me at all to quit viewing it

 

I think some amateur porn is fairly normal sex but it doesn't matter. It's still unnatural to be the viewer.

If you think back to when you were a kid and first saw porn, you probably found it disgusting and not at all appealing for a long time before you started to enjoy it. You had to LEARN to like it. And a lot of older people who never saw porn growing up have no interest in viewing it. Why? Because you're supposed to want to have sex with a partner yourself, not watch strangers have sex. You're naturally supposed to be disgusted seeing other people have sex.

 

Perhaps that's right. Before high speed internet porn came up, I didn't have any cravings for watching this stuff, because... well, because it literally didn't exist yet. So this craving for porn is artificially created. I sometimes just wonder whether it's too late to really set the brain back to a pre-porn tube sites state because our generation was literally born into it and now we have to struggle for the rest of our lives to stay away from it.