Soft erections because om pmo?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Bobeed, Jul 18, 2017.

  1. Bobeed

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    Tofay is day 9, my record and i relapsed. I couldnt resist after seeing a few pics on the internet. I fapped which felt great and than i had a bootycall because why not since i fucked up anyway. Had sex, my dick was more firm than normal but still going soft when changing positions. The girl however noted that my penis is pretty big(16.8cm)

    Im pissed but i believe my willpower is stonger than ever. Gonna beat this.
     
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  2. drkarim

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    what is death grip?
     
  3. Drew140

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    It means you can only orgasm via masturbation. The grip of your hand provides a level of pressure different from other types of sexual acts
     
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  4. When you are fully erect, a 6½ inch penis is above average.
    So, you relapsed to porn I assume. They weren't pics of hills and valleys I take it! :rolleyes:

    Btw. You need to stop having sex for a few months. You are only confusing you brain while it is trying to recover from sexual overstimulation. Hard mode - no P or M or O. Leave your junk alone and focus on other unrelated things in life.
     
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  5. You're erections are soft due to erectile dysfunction caused by excessive masturbation.
    When you don't get enough erections your penis loses elasticity. This can also lead to hard flaccid penis.
    I've had this issue as well so you're not alone.
     
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  6. Ljo

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    It's happening to me. Want the strong erections again
     
  7. Bobeed

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    What would you recommend me? And what helped for you brother?
     
  8. Well, I'd say it's best to stop jerking off and give you're body time to recover. Goes without saying I know but it will help.

    If you're really worried it might be best to see a doctor. Other than that I can't really help, sorry.
     
  9. Bobeed

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    Tnx, my case is not rhat bad , i can get it up and have sex. Just its like 80% hard. I need to stop mastrubating, but do you think sex is oke every 14 days?
     
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  10. I recommend you avoid sex for the first few months Bobeed. This approach is called hard mode. It is the quickest and most effective route to recovery: no P or M or O. You need to reset your counter - click on Update Your Counter^ (above). :)
     
  11. nofepfepforlife

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    Quoting for truth.
     
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  12. Ljo

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    That's what I have. I haven't watched porn or jerked off for 3 days. I know it will take longer before my dick comes to life
     
  13. Bobeed

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    I relapsed yesterday, did M. Just keep strong aftet day 5 your used to it.
     
  14. Ljo

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    Relapse is part of the process. Don't beat yourself up. It gets easier but relapse is just a heartbeat away.
     
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  15. Bobeed

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    Thats true brother. What is your longest streak?
     
  16. Ljo

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    I've been trying on n off for years. I'll put a good streak together then think well I can watch just a little porn. A minute becomes 30 minutes, an hour, the whole afternoon, Cummings a few times. That's been my cycle. This Time I have to succeed
     
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  17. Bobeed

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    Well lets succeed together then
     
  18. Ljo

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    That's a good plan guy.
    I have started bike riding its a good time to meditate. Also gets blood flowing better. Did 12 miles testerday
     
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  19. Bobeed

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    Today i start again after a few relapses. So August 1 is day 1 of no pmo, i will try to have sex after day 15 at least
     
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  20. Ljo

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    I'm on day 5 of no PMO. Feel ok, but waiting for PIED and flatline to improve. Doing some reading and realize I have to stop edging if I want to succeed.
    Still concerns about my sexuality......
     
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