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Soft erections because om pmo?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Bobeed, Jul 18, 2017.

  1. Bobeed

    Bobeed Fapstronaut

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    Dear,

    I am 23 years old and i have never been an avid porn watcher. Just ocasionally but from when i was 12 till now i masteubate at least 2 times a day.

    Now sometimes when i have sex i go soft when changing positions and my erections are like 75%. Are there more people who have had this?

    Currently im on day 3 of no pmo and i plan to have sex around day 14. Like every 2 weeks i will have sex.

    Can masrubating alot also cause this? I ussualy use my fantasy when i mastrubate. What i also noticed is that a few years ago i could easily go for a second round whitin an hour but now its get soft during sex amd changing positions.

    Is there anyone with advise and succes stories. I want my rock hard erctions back.
     
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  2. Bobeed

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    Today i hit day 7 of no pmo. This is the longest ive ever gone without.

    Until today the urges were pretty ok but today i woke up with a hard one and it lasted some time. I will see what week 2 brings me.
     
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  3. Infern0

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    To answer your original question, yes absoloutley porn and excessive masterbation decreases erection quality.
     
  4. Happy Man

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    It's porn induced erectile dysfunction. I may seem like you haven't over fried your dopamine receptors, but you have.

    You get more turned on by porn than a real woman. In the next few days or weeks, you will have hard erections because of your porn urges. You will want to watch porn or masturbate.

    After a while you will go into flat line. This dick feels like it's dead. What is happening is your brain is re wiring itself to a real woman provided you don't P or M. Flat line means your brain is recovering from too much dopamine.

    12 years is a long time so it might take a bit of time to heal. It could take 1 or 2 years to heal properly provided you don't P or M. The most important thing is to aim for 90 days. You will see a lot of improvements in that time.

    Good luck ; )
     
  5. Drew140

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    For now rest your dick as long as possible. If you are sore get some healing ointment (aqueous cream ask the pharmacist what they carry. It's skin cream. It will help heal the skin from yanking with not enough lube). Let him heal.
     
  6. Bobeed

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    Tnx mate
     
  7. Bobeed

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    Tnx, even if i dont watch porn so often? And when would be the right time to have sex again? Day 1-6 i felt like my penis was dead. Today its way better
     
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  8. Bobeed

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    Tnx, i never used lube. Will give this a try
     
  9. Infern0

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    Sorry to break this to you but if you developed porn induced ED, you cannot watch porn anymore.

    The damage has been done and the neuropathways have been damaged.

    You will recover and bounce back pretty quickly if you get off it and stay on it but anytime you go back, the ED will come back, FAST
     
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  10. Bobeed

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    Tnx i dont watch porn and it doesnt bother me, the challange to me is mastrubating. I didnt know 2-3 times a day impactef my erections quality during sex
     
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  11. drkarim

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    u are sure about this? can u give more details about the neuropathway damage?
     
  12. I'm no expert on the matter but I've read that like muscles, brain cells have memory as well. This being the case ensures that if you go back to watching pornography after rebooting, old pathways will re-activate and strengthen which can cause your ED immediately again.
     
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  13. Drew140

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    Rest you dick, get some lube, and relax. You don't want permanent death grip.
     
  14. htyerr

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  15. Drew140

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    Too much friction from no lubricant can really injure the little guy.
     
  16. Worrisome

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    Its called death grip syndrome. It can heal
     
  17. Anonymous86

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    You can get permanent death grip?
     
  18. Drew140

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    Rest your dick, get some lube, and relax. You will be fine.
     
  19. Drew140

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    Silk or Astroglide
     
  20. Bobeed

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    Oke guys, today i have the chance to hook up with a lovely lady. Im on day 8 of no pmo should i do it?
     

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