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Should I also stop anal masturbation and my anal masturbation history.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by loiki, Nov 29, 2014.

  1. loiki

    loiki Fapstronaut

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    Do not read if you are strongly against guys putting things in their asses.

    My story first: 15 years of porn progressively weirder and weirder stuff until unable to orgasm with a real woman and hard time keeping an erection if little to non movement. I have come twice with a girl and it was like almost one hour long sessions and I had to imagine porn. I have no problem coming to a porn just keeping my erection going when I browse for a new video to watch.

    How I discovered anal masturbation ? Well it came kinda naturally. I was just tired of normal porn and found anal stuff and there was just something that was so interesting to me. How can these people enjoy this hole which isn't even meant for that, so much? So I started searching for more information and discovered g spot articles. One day I was taking a dump, a huge one in fact and we all know that feeling when you take a huge dump it just feels so good and I figured there must be really something into this. So I decided to try this. The first time it felt really wrong going in. I mean stuff has come out from there for whole of my life and now something went in. I didn't like it, but I am "try everything twice" kind of person so I did. Second time same feeling but I left it there and started masturbating and when I finished it felt like a new door had opened. Well it kinda had :D It felt better than just masturbating. So I did this about half year every now and then and when I moved to my own apartment I decided to take the next step and make it move at the same time. At first it felt really odd, but I kept going untill it started to feel really good and then I came. The feeling was like nothing before. It felt like my head just exploded. My legs were shaking, I made this "ahhh" sound which I have never made it just came naturally I couldnt help it and my heart was pounding really fast. From that day on I have been hooked to anal masturbation.

    I don't do it more than normal masturbation, because normal is just easier and faster. Don't have to clean up places first. Finding my g-spot has meant much stronger orgasms to me. I'm on my day 26? and to be honest this has been relatively easy for me so far. I do think I watched porn fairly little compared to some people here maybe every third day and masturbated then, but almost every day I'd watch nude pictures on different thumblr sites. I am ready to give up porn for life, but anal masturbation I'm not so sure. The feeling I get from it is just more than what I get from watching porn so that's why I'm asking could that be the source of my problem? After all it is just masturbation just stimulating different part of your body.
     
    Last edited: Nov 29, 2014
  2. TotalLifeChange

    TotalLifeChange Fapstronaut

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    Dude, first, I recommend you conver the sensitive text [NSFW]like this[/NSFW]. It's the cake icon in the advanced editor.

    Second, don't overthink it. I don't think what you do is normal as to be accepted by every girl. In any case, you should try to see yourself as from the outside, plus the place you fill in your environment. Is your environment and the people you want to hang around with the type of people who accept these kind of things?

    I think getting a overall fulfilling life is more important than instant gratification.

    So for me it's easy. Relationships with real girls and a fulfilling life >>>>> instant gratification, no matter what it is.
     
  3. IGY

    IGY Guest

    I am happy to hear you are committed and ready to give up porn for life. There are varying views about the need or benefit of doing the same with masturbation. Some masturbate occasionally when rebooting from porn, but it might take them a little longer to get there. Personally, I do not edge, masturbate, have sex or orgasm (apart from wet dreams) or use porn. My method is often referred to as hard mode. It will certainly get you hard and stay hard quicker, lol.

    There is no doubt, that when you learn to stimulate your G-spot via anal masturbation, it is essentially mind blowing! You will experience something that is pretty much a whole body orgasm. If this is something you want to do as a treat in the future, that is one option. However, if you are addicted to masturbation or anal masturbation in particular then it is an issue you need to address. Addiction to pornography and masturbation can be two sides of the same coin. :rolleyes:

    In the future, you may well chose to find a sexual partner that is willing and able to give you anal stimulation and the sort of convulsive orgasms possible with anal masturbation. What do you think?
     
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  4. loiki

    loiki Fapstronaut

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    TotalLifeChange: It's a site build around masturbation and porn I don't really think anything written here can shock anyone. And yes my environment is full of accepting people. There is only one thing we hate. Religious people who force upon their religion or values to others. I'm not shamed of what I am doing. Why should I be? It's my body and no ones business. All I asked was could this great feeling I get from doing it make real sex less "tasteful". I really hope my ED problem is just caused by porn.

    IGY: I'm doing the hard mode also. 90 days after that I might masturbate or have sex, but no porn. We'll see. Honestly I don't think I have either anal or normal masturbation addiction. Okay, sure I do it in regular basis, but 3 times a day are so rare for me. It's more that my porn history got weirder over time. I sure hope to find a girl that is open minded and also willing to try new things :)
     
  5. Monster Carrot

    Monster Carrot Fapstronaut

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    So he was right about the sensitive text. A few people might read and be triggered by the descriptions, leading to relapse if their minds wander too far. We like to cover them up just in case.

    OT: It sounds like you would enjoy using an anal plug. A lot of men use them when having sex with women, and it can be considered acceptable if your partner is alright with it.
     
  6. IGY

    IGY Guest

    He went back and edited his opening entry with a cautionary subheading. this seems more than adequate to me...

     
  7. Stopitjack

    Stopitjack Fapstronaut

    I really would never talk about my masturbation endeavors as I have ventured from the norm. But twice topics that have affected my masturbation preferences been talked about, anal stimulation being one of them and transwomen and sissies being the other. They are topics that I would be embarresssd to even broach but not so on NoFap. Even before I read this when I relapsed last week I went to transwomen and sissies and anal stimulation. i have seen my masturbation preferences written about and when I do I normally , I think about it.
    When I was not into PMO, I did not have any desire for transwoman or anal stimulation, but more progressed to it the more I watched porn. These are by no means the only two that I masturbated to, just about all genre of porn and anal stimulation (AS). I think I tried it because I saw it on the vid's. AS is pleasant but because I want to stop masturbation, AS must go for me.
    I think that NoFap does not judge as we have all been watching our own fetishes and habits flourish with online porn. Also I do not think anything I have done while masturbating or watching porn is original. It's a road we all go down, and we have all done stuff we normally would not do. For me most stuff is fair game, there are a few things I felt were not good. But AS was good for me but for now I have to stop because it brings on a whole bunch of unhealthy behavior. I am not even sure what I said evens makes sense.
    Thanks Aqjelq for bringing up the topic it reminds me I am not alone.
    Cheers
     

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