hi there. My husband and I have been together for 8 years, we have 3 children. I’m an atheist and he’s a Mormon. So our whole relationship I’ve believed he is living the law of chastity (a Mormon belief that any sexual activity outside of marriage is a sin) they believe masturbation and porn is a sin, and even looking at a member of the opposite sex while married is frowned upon. On Wednesday I found him watching porn and masturbating. I’m in shock. He’s informed me that he’s been addicted since before we got together and for years when I’ve been upset at him refusing me sex it’s been because he’s been doing these 90 day things. I had absolutely no idea. I feel very betrayed. His religion has caused so much conflict in our relationship and now I discover he’s not even been properly following it anyway. And all this time I’ve felt so secure about how faithful and committed he is to our marriage because of the law of chastity he believes in so much. And now discover he’s had this secret all along and he’s been watching other people. How do partners cope and move forward?