Raging With Myself

Stop trying to like girls then. Instead, make a lot of approaches to lots of different girls. Is there a nightlife scene where you are?

If you go out CONSISTENTLY to a party like atmosphere with alcohol involved, you will get some hookups

But if you are going the straight edge route, then idk what to say. Just accept being celibate and don’t ever look at porn or masturbate. Then maybe in time God will have mercy on you and give you a woman as a gift

 

Repeating situations happen to teach us something. Until we learn it, they will repeat FOR EVER. Its fucked man. I can feel u, as I had/have the same. Girls going for another man. Or ghosting me. Like today. I had a great date with her, we spend 6 hours together. I escaletd it - I touched her. Kissed her. She kissed me. Than few days she texted me, Ive set a date and day before, she did not answer one simple text and since than, she is gone. Stuff like this happens to me. And other things. Most likely she just fucked someone else as I wrote her that msg, I almost felt that..

It feels like Im cursed. It happens all the time in all kinds of variants, most of em are trully torturing.

I dated 100s of em. And I never understood what this situation means, what should I learn and why is it happening. It ends like this in 98% of cases. Its ridiculous.

All I get is constant pain. It hurts deeply, when it happens :/

Maybe the pain should show me/us something.

I dont know man, Im quite fucked.. hope u find the answers

Ps: another fact is, the dating scene is just a wreck. We all are wrecked, hurt, scared, traumatized... and nobody is able to create a normal relationship. Its a sign of a times man. It doesnt have to mean, something is wrong with us. Its very certain, the girls we date, are also deeply wounded and just unable to form any relationship. Its a circle. They are hurt, so they hurt others. This society will not go on for much longer, because of this I believe..

Stay strong!!!

 

One more thing. U speak about "being atractive" but that means nothing, if you dont push for her puXXy. If u get friendzoned, its because u too slow and not direct. And thus they dont see u as a lover. That other guy touched her puXXy and u did not, thats why she is with him. He was bold, rude etc...

But these kind of girls... what u even get, when u "succeed" with them? And what is the "relationship" based on? And what happens, when anothe bold man comes? Or when u dont fck her brain off for 6 days? I had girls like that as well. If u dont bang her all the time, she will "wake up" from the sex spell and just leave for another hit of dopamine elswhere, just like that.

 

Nowadays girls jumping from relationship to the next in a blink of an eye ️. Also social media could be a cause as well. People compete with each other or they see posts relating to relationship. Social media can be a gift and a curse at the same time. At least that's how it is in the west when it comes to dating.

 

Yeah well thats the 1st thing most ppl fall for. Usually these ideas which come 1st to everybody, just suck. You will grow up from there eventually.