PLEASE DON'T JUDGE ME

Thanks! About your story, I am sorry about what happened in your childhood.
I am also looking for someone real who I can talk about these things; I think you should get away from those apps, because they may be triggers, also the people you meet on there, are not always the best people.
Ask to a friend to introduce you to other guys/girls! Get rid of those apps! Congratulations for your 45 days!!

 

Yeah, I was a dumb because hormones, I am still one.
Its a little hard to forget my mistakes, I think it is easier if I share them with someone real.
27 is not that bad!! You still have a lot of years coming! Imagine yourself being free of PMO the next 60 years of your life!!

 

You let me thinking about that :\ Honestly I can't stand with the thought 'I am gay'. I am not homophobic, but gay actions doesn't correspond to my faith or my plans.
I was thinking and maybe I am gay for the fact that I am attracted to men, but that is not bad at all; what IS bad is to act gay: have gay sex, watch gay porn, touch someone's dick...
I think I am gay and it is the cross I need to carry: I will try to be saint by avoiding all those gays acts.
What mekes me think i'm straight ist hat i have always thought on marrying a womand and having my own family.
I don't know! I am confused! Please prey for me.

 

Feel free to PM me! I am constantly logged in here

 

I don't know what to say. This is not only about if it is safe now to be gay or not, it is about what I am.
I need to abstain from PMO, to see if it is porn induced. Then I will find out.
I am really confused.

 

Excuse me but are you are psychiatrist, psychologist or general porn therapy expert in the position to tell him whether or not he can lose the same sex attraction he has to men by abstaining from porn?...
How exactly do you know this for certain to make such and arrogant and bold ASSertion?

What I KNOW based on my own experience of watching both gay and straight porn is that abstaining from both of them really clears my mind and reminds me I'm here specifically to be great and have relation with women specifically for reproducing.

@1arqui

Continue abstaining from no pmo and you'll find the true you... only you can find it ... no one else can dictate that for you man.... continue to remain p free and your mind will lose the facade porn induces on it... that been has my experience in my longer streaks of no pmo...... BEST WISHES TO YOU!

 

Excuse me but are you are psychiatrist, psychologist or general porn therapy expert in the position to tell him whether or not he can lose the same sex attraction he has to men by abstaining from porn?...
How exactly do you know this for certain to make such and arrogant and bold ASSertion?

 

Excuse me once AGAIN.... read-re what I wrote....

I shared my experience since I've watched gay porn in the past....
you shared no experience and gave unsubstantiated rhetoric based off your OPINION and EMOTIONS....

so again your not the psychiatrist, psychologist or general porn therapy expert you arrogantly ASSume you are....
and apparently you can't COMPREHEND what I shared as my experience neither.....

with all that said don't be so quick to ASSume things......... you know the rest....

 

I did neither stated nor implied that I am a "psychiatrist, psychologist or general porn therapy expert". That is an assumption on your part. Your only foundation for this is that you consider your opinion and experience on this matter superior to mine. If that is true, it is not a reason for me to say nothing to the guy we are supporting in this thread.

Please read again what I actually said:

I start by not expressing an opinion, but by seeking clarity over a comment he made which I was confused about. I went on to say, "it seems", not assuming anything. Next I reiterated a statement of fact he made in his original post. Based on the storehouse of information based on personal experience from https://yourbrainonporn.com/ I stated what the pattern of this type of dilemma looks like. I use the word "usually" to acknowledge that this may not be everyone's experience.

Quite honestly, I really do not understand why you are busting my balls over this. Just leave me and my comments alone.​

 

In your haste to clean up the asinine comment you wrote you did in FACT expressed your opinion after not throughly reading the OP's written text. Maybe next time you should in your own words seek "clarity" before telling someone what their true sexual preference maybe with forgone illogical replies.....

and AGAIN I shared my honest experience (since when does experience become and opinion?) THATS LUDICROUS ... unless you did a test over time to see some one go without gay porn like I did with myself and see the effects... I don't see how you can come up with the hogwash you replied with... maybe you need clarity in understanding that as well

And your not above being questioned about what you write, no one is here on this site including me.... thats why there are quote/reply buttons.. Have a Good Night

 

You are just being obnoxious @Velvet_Rope97. Leave me the fuck alone!

 

nope your upset I responded to your comments and called your hogwash for what it was....
why the bad language here?
this is suppose to be a friendly community....
meditate my friend....

 

You have not been friendly to me! I have asked you again and again to leave me alone but you keep pushing me. Don't fucking patronise me by calling me 'your friend'. You are not my friend. Why the bad fucking language? I am upset at being attacked, so just leave me alone!

 

If you say so... and I meant "friend" sarcastically.. but I see you didn't see the sarcasm there... PLACE ME ON IGNORE THEN @IGY no need to lose sleep since you are obviously bothered over this discussion, one you took WAYYY out of hand and over broad.... loosen up it's not that serious man ... were online discussing a topic we are not at war.... good nite....