Pedophilia

what if having these thoughts and attraction only to an `specific` person ? like a minor relative
not all of the people on that age + minor has that thoughts and attraction at the same time to an adult
its still count as pedo ? even if not lead to any crime and abuse

i think nature is so diverse and we should respect everybody around their thoughts and attraction
until its not lead to crime and abuse.



honestly , all the posts were around some adult having these problematic behavior toward children ?
not the children around a adult?
this topic was really got on researches about Children sexual behaviors developing and what is normal and what is not.

a while ago
i noticed minors around 7-11 in work and other places who bring they child anyway...
these minors start doing or acting a kind of flirting behavior around adults... after a while.
the place they go regularly from time to time

i dont know its sound weird to me...anyway
i mean verbal or physical but the parents dont notice that and considered as normal...

specially the kids who like to sit on people legs
and i think the adults like that game too! ahahhaah

+children with Precocious puberty are mostly having sexual desires at a very young age

what if generation of internet children were pass this stage/time of sexual introduction so quickly and they already know about
sexuality and sexual topics at the age were in the past was confusing...

they go and find any explicit material to a minor and watching them,like porn,



cant child be the predator? not the adult ?? lol
this is sound a bit shame and weird but i feel its real and happening now...
philosophically incorrect lol

 

Some porn addicts are wrongly labelled as pedophiles.
Understanding Users of Child Pornography | Psychology Today
Viewing Child Abuse Images: Paedophile or Addicted to Porn? (welldoing.org)

 

Some people, quite by accident, escalate to extreme content, foot fetish, cannibalism, BDSM, transwoman, rape, incest, gagging, it's no fault of their own, this is something to do with their dopamine receptors and reward circuitry, they can easily get healed by simply changing their behavior.
And not all pedophiles are ACTUALLY pedophiles, but rather, they're being labelled as such by the uneducated media, just because you view cp, doesn't mean you're straightforwardly a pedophile.
And by the way, pedophilia is not a crime, it's a disorder.
Abusing a child which is appalling deserves a bullet in the head, that's just my opinion.

 

There are some instances of people who have been ostensibly labelled as pedophiles which is heart-wrenching.
My Friend's Suicide | NoFap®
Probably the most messed up introduction you'll ever read on here.. : NoFap (reddit.com)
My experience as a paedophile, cured by NHS psychoanalysis » StopSO UK

 

Here's what I culminate to, if you view cp and feel ashamed, mortified, and you feel extremely guilty of what you did, AND you're a porn addict and it lead you to this point, there's hope.
If you don't feel any self-inflicted guilt and you're not remorseful for watching cp, if you just have ignorant fondness for watching cp without feeling ashamed and think that it's normal, that patently and definitely deserves jail time.

 

@Moatasem : Jesus, that's some rough stories.

I've seen a lot of weird shit when it comes to porn (incest, sissy, etc.), but never CP, that's just....no.

 

I agree with you, I, personally, wouldn't escalate to cp, it's not favorable, but I still stay adamant and tenacious with my position about some porn addicts being labelled fallaciously.

 

Back in the day, I was on a Lindsay Lohan fan forum and one of the regulars there actually got arrested for pedophilia.
He was a great guy to others, but from what I read in the news piece, he pleaded guilty on the charges.

I agree to the level of disgust, though, and not all people being monsters - we've all had that feeling when we fap to the "wrong" porn for our generic sexuality (and I've done so for all varieties between incest, sissy and gay).