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Partner Sexual Pics/Videos. Is this Right or Wrong?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Don9087, Mar 6, 2019.

  1. Mar 6, 2019 #1
    Don9087

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    Hello friends
    I have a question that has been boggling me for a while. My name is Don and I'm a S and P Addict. I've been recovering from my addiction for some time now. My question is; Is it Right or Wrong to M & O over pics/ videos that I took of my wife, with her consent of course.
     
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  2. Mar 6, 2019 #2
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    I would avoid alone MO even in this case.
    If you both enjoy them maybe view them together.
     
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    why tho?
     
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  4. Mar 6, 2019 #4
    Don9087

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    I have been taking pics and videos of her. We both came to agree to Express each other how we feel towards us. I began doing this so I can become closer to my wife and she the same. However I often thought that I may be doing this to replace my old bad habits to this more "healthier" and more honest approach so I think. Can this be considered right or Wrong?
     
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  5. Mar 6, 2019 #5
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    MO'ing to this is a replacement and having the effect on your mind that you had before. Since she knows that you both take these pics and vids, does she also know how you are using them? Staying open about these things is very important.
     
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  6. Mar 6, 2019 #6
    Struggle Bug

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    I think you have a good motive there but why do it alone when you can have sex with her? Why Mo to pics of her when she's right there? Even if it's not porn, you're still doing things sexually with a screen. Even if it's your wife. I think it kinda defeats the purpose of doing Nofap when you're still getting off on a screen.
     
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  7. Mar 6, 2019 #7
    Don9087

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    You make an extremely valid point! I see what you're saying. I'd love to have a talk with her about this subject. I was trying to explore 9ur options on how we would please each other however I can see why that may misfire. Thank you for opening my eyes. I so much appreciate your support.
     
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  8. Mar 6, 2019 #8
    Struggle Bug

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    You're welcome, glad I could help. Talk to her about it, and does she know that you have pmo and sex addiction? If she does, i think you definitely should talk to her about this.
     
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