On Being Attractive

First what catches my eye is your expression on your picture: you look dissatisfied and sad, it is like you are worried or unlucky about something. Why don't you smile more? I guarantee you will feel better, because it makes you happy. And other people around you will notice your happiness you take with you by smiling. And smiling makes more attractive, no joke!

 

Hmm, could say the same about your avatar, lol.

 

Hahah good one But the sad-part doesn't fit to it, the expression of my avatar is more serious than sad

But it is not forbidden being more relaxed and chilled, so give it a try! But don't exaggerate.

 

i was a skinny tall person and then bulked up a decent amount (about 40 lbs). It's not necessary to do so, but you'll get alot more attention and more attractive girls will be into you. Also keep in mind in 6'7" which is a factor in getting that female attraction. But getting more mass increased it for me alot

 

Sounds like you are doing great.

When I was your age I was too self absorbed to notice whether or not the ladies had their eye on me. To be honest, I probably still am today.

 

OP,

Fucking pretty-boy....

Honestly though, one straight white male to another, you're the sort of guy I hate because girls would be crushing on your so hard. You're doing something I never really did at your age - pushing iron. Bulking up, either with a programme or a trainer, should net you some serious results. I've been going to the gym for almost 6 months, and looking over my measurements, my weight, bicep and chest are currently where they were at the start (although all dropped before getting to this point), and my hip and waist measurements dropped (although my waist small has climbed from it's lowest).

As someone who went from 'scrawny' to 'skinny-fat' without anything in-between, and being short to boot, I admit to having envy of any guy who is closer to the ideal.

Yeah yeah... I know all about self-limiting beliefs. If no one wants a piece of me, how is that 'self'-limiting.

 

That is really nasty and uncalled for!

Well said @CH3RRY. I respect what you have done and the journey you have made. Don't let anybody put you down.

 

Every person goes through their own journey, no one is going to know how hard or how easy one's journey is. I don't think he actually means that he hates you, just a figure of speech to explain something probably?

But it's good knowing that you're taking control and making an effort, that's what counts

 

I feel you. I'm 180cm tall myself and 2 years ago I weighed around 55kg. I started going to the gym (went there from September last year to this year's June) and I weight 70kg now. I'm feeling happier now but I'm still not satisfied, as I have a lot of fat which is preventing me from getting a more structured body (I can barely see the first two abs). I definitely recommend doing exercise of some sort, whether it is going to the gym or doing calisthenics (which Im doing because I started university this year and I don't have the time to go to the gym)

 

It feels amazing in the next morning with all the muscle pain, doesn't it?

 

Been trash too, my whole life( skinny , bad posture, 0 muscles) all untill this year which I made huge improvements. Been around two years since I stopped PMO and many improvements happened since then. I'm still on my way, building my muscles but the progress is really good. I got for the first time in my life a girl say I'm cute right in my face looking right in my eyes(happened like a week ago) . Plus other girls looking at me without saying anything ). The confidence and stuff I gained from abstaining from Pmo really boosted me forward.
I started changing my interests a lot too, from gaming and stuff, to going places and meeting people. Having a better looking body is such a powerful confidence booster.

Everyone, keep going strong. There are countless benefits awaiting.

 

You're a good looking guy but indeed a little thin :b I weight 61 kg and I'm 1.62 m tall, but I might be a little fat. My first crush was very thin, I don't think it has nothing to do with that. Just smile more

 

Yeah, I've done that as well when I started

 

honestly getting bigger can sometimes work against you. I am with a woman now who says she doesn't like big muscular guys, she's probably not for me. I am thick and muscly. I'm actually trying to shed some weight. I think I'm a little too big. Chicks like skinny guys. If a lot of women are looking at you, what's the problem? Are you going and talking to any of them?