NNN is a joke/Rant about fetish

It's not.

You will.

But you gotta trust the process.

You shouldn't think of NoFap as, like, this magic cure-all process that will just fix things after 90 days. NoFap is going to help you fix yourself by giving you time and energy back.

It's not just about counting the days you've spent not fapping. It's about making those days count. Every day, you should be working to move yourself forwards in this world.

Your particular fetish... I can only presume that it's rooted in insecurity and low self-esteem. How do you fix that? You work to build yourself up.

Time to start working out every day. You don't need a gym membership. You can do plenty of bodyweight exercises at home. Time to build a skill. Take some online courses. Watch some instructional YouTube videos. Time to start eating well. Time to clean your room. Time to start building a social network. Time to start doing all of the things that you know you should be doing, but haven't because [reasons].

STOP WATCHING PORN. START BUILDING YOURSELF.

 

do you do boxing? or k1 or muay thai? join a gym and do that,or pure BJJ(i dont reccomend mma.,its its own style now and not a mix of different pure styles as intended in the brazilian underground scene)
If you become a strong male human you wont give attention to other men in the way it troubles you.

 

Hi @BrSweat I know what it feels like to wonder whether you will ever be "normal" again. I can say confidently you will absolutley be able to live the life you want if you take the right steps right now. Check out the information tab of my profile for my story with extreme fetishes and how I have been dealing with them.

 

You need to take accountability for your own actions. NNN didn’t cause you to do anything, you caused you to do it. Without taking accountability for your own actions, you will always blame everyone else for what YOU do.

 

A valid point.

Also a valid point.

The distressed vibes I’m picking up here, from the OP and most Fapstronauts in general, indicate our condition is further advanced than can be addressed with a simple Internet challenge. I know I personally require a lifestyle overhaul.

I’m not going to criticize others and their choices, but I don’t treat November any different from another month. I don’t think anyone around here should either.

Again, do what you want to do, we’re all trying to make our way in this strange world the best we can. But I’d encourage you to take ownership of your actions, today and every day. Accept this endeavor as a difficult one that requires training and learning and a lot of mistakes. And don’t lend November any special treatment in your mind. You’ll beat this in the end, BrSweat, and you’ll look back on this period of life as a tough but meaningful one that helped set you up for bigger and better things.

 

I agree with you!

NNN is sort of a joke in my mind, because it frames recovery like it's some sort of game when infact it's a lifestyle. I participated in it this year just to fit in, but as usual I failed because I find it hard to take seriously. Even the whole name is a joke "No Nut," but then again I'm posting on a site called, "NoFap"

To each their own.