Needy people constantly wanting to hangout

Anybody have any tips in this?
I have a coworker that is hitting me up everyday, calling me multiple times. He call me to drink and smoke weed w him. The last time I was there he got really mad at me that I only stayed 1.5 hours instead of like 3-4 hrs like he wanted. Hanging there, there's nothing to do. He plays games and that's it. One player boring games like Life boardgame on xbox. He refuses to play 2 players bc he only likes to play by himself against computers. Like wtf, i dont jus wAnna sit there. I love smoking weed and drinking beer as the next guy but i wanna do something w it.

When I left last time, he became emotional and made a HUGE deal about me "leaving" early (bringing it up multiple times, trying to make me stay longer, and dragging chairs around loudly). Tbh, I don't want to hangout there anymore. It's fine and all, but I don't do anthing but sit there... I don't want to be rude to him but he's salty af constantly, lIke an emotional little girl. He's also 34-35 and I'm 20 yrs old. He's not creepy towards me like that and I don't care the age but he hits me up every day around midnight. I fall asleep around 11-1 bc I wake up early. I can't chill there bc he gets salty if I'm only there for 2 hours. It honestly pisses me off.

He has told me he has psychological problems and sees a psychologist. He works w me so I can't just say fuck it, or I could idk. I feel like hitting him up tomo bc he's gonna call me guaranteed at 11pm multiple times. I blew him off already and "feel bad" but not really. Just today he shot me a text, called me 4 times and left 2 voicemails. Like its so desperate...

 

I have a good amount of friends that I hangout with. They aren't desperate. They'll shoot me a text and if I don't respond that's it. I'm doing stuff or I'm simply not trying to chill with them. I feel like lying and saying I have summer class in the morning. But I'm trying to be more honest and be real w people.
I don't want to say that hes boring and I don't want to sit there and do nothing for more than 1.5-2 hours. I get fucking bored sitting down starting at a TV screen. I used to, but especially on nofap it's not interesting. I'd rather be out somewhere at a bar or even just sober outside doing activities or the gym. Hell smoking weed and driving listening to music near the beach. Literally anything else. I shouldn't have chilled that first time bc he's slamming my phone everyday.
He's told me that nobody chills w him bc he just doesn't like to do anything. So he's aware of his actions so it shouldn't come as any surprise to him. Seriously like if he would stop and let me play 2 player I might be able to stay there longer, even though that still wouldn't be fun for me. He has psychological problems so idk. Being there is not beneficial at all.

I chilled w another group of people and played board games at their house which is odd bc all my friends usually smoke weed and drink. But we all just played board games, smoked and drank. It was one of the best nights I've had in a while and there wasn't even girls there. See so it's not like I hate being indoors wasting time. It's just the people are better and I can actually DO SOMETHING. GODDAMMIT!!! This is more of a rant but any advice is appreciated. He's a nice enough dude I suppose. But he's not doing anything w his life, he's boring, he gets angry REALLY easily, and he is basically an alcoholic. And more importantly he's fake as fuck. Honestly somebody I am working to not be in life. Compete opposites. Somebody I don't want to associate w outside of work bc I don't want to end up like them. He's not going anywhere in life, and I want to do things. I want a career, family, etc. I'm 20, so not right now but you understand. I feel bad and feel I should hangout tomorrow just to make him feel better but he'll continue to hmu.. it's fucked

 

Texts like, "hey man what're you up to? Wanna chill? Last time you came over for an hour and half but it's fine." Like bitchass, you got a problem w me? Either say something straight up to me or suck it up and don't be an emotional little girl about it". Do something to improve your life except videogames, movies, and drinking.

This is a rant, I'm tired af

 

What about telling him that you don't want to be with him, cause he's very boring and you can't stand it?

 

Bro, stop using bitch and little girl as insults! Little girls are gorgeous and precious and not at all like this dude. And should you be driving and smoking?

I had a desperate as friend too. Pity hangs can only go on for so long. It's ok if they're occasional but on the daily is crazy! I ended up telling my friend that I just don't feel like chatting all the time and I need some space..but that was just a texting/calling problem, not a hanging out problem. If I was in your situation I'd say something in person: hey man, sorry I couldn't come out the other night. I'm getting super busy at the moment and it's hard to fit everything in. I can probably only hang out a couple of times a month out of work. Sorry man, I'm just trying to spend my time more productively and less time watching screens.

 

You're right. Didnt mean to insult little girls lmao. They're sweet, even though that's sounds creepy to type out. And yeah smoking weed and driving. I'm not drinking and driving. Thanks though

 

He has psychological problems. But fuck it I could.

 

Lmao

 

I think I might actually say that to the man

 

Maybe he has a crush on you?

 

I really don't think so. He knows I'm straight bc the waitresses and I flirt a lot around him

 

Those last 2 sentences though is the TRUTH