My gym partner is a women and I want to ask her out....

Just go for it, life is too short not to. Just take it a date at a time, just because you're dating someone doesn't mean you have to jump into bed with them. Enjoy spending time with her and getting to know her. Worry about the sexual side if and when that happens.

 

JUST ASK HER OUT its that simple, you have feelings don't be ashamed of them

 

How much does it suck that today’s dating scene involves thinking of sex on (or even before?!) the first date? If you can, try to think “old-fashioned dating.” Get back to basic courtship. Have a conversation. Hold her damn hand.

 

And YES ask her out. And try to behave like a gentleman. You could even say directly, “Any chance we could try old-fashioned dating a while? You know, for the novelty of it?” Sheesh, I’d venture that would make a decent number of today’s females (my friends and I) swoon. Like, is that even a choice anymore???

 

You Can Do It.

Think “gentleman.” Think “chivalry.”

 

Ask her out, and if it comes to sex tell her before that you had a problem with ED but you fighting against it. It will show confidence, and she will try harder to make you hard. Women love confidence. If you are confident about you insecurities there is nothing better.

 

That's awesome GO FOR IT !

 

All your stress / worries / fears are a result of being self centered. You want to wait until you're ready. Until things are ideal and smooth. You want to escape from real women / real relationships / real experiences / reality. Porn is a way to escape all that and focus solely on your needs / desires. All this escapism is a way for you to protect yourself from possible negative experiences.

Where's the other person in all this? What about what she wants? What about her choice? What about her needs / desires? You're rejecting yourself before she even gets the chance to reject or accept you because this way you're maintaining a sense of control. This way you don't win, but you also don't really lose. Nothing happens. No chance for positive or negative experiences to happen. That's why porn felt so good (you get a positive experience without the risk of any negative experiences happening). If you want something real in your life, then you'll have to take a risk. You'll have to allow both positive and negative possibilities. That means letting others into your life. That means expanding beyond yourself and thinking about others.

So if you want to get better at relationships, remember that it's not always about you.

 

Man the whole point of NoFap is to get control of your life, don't let NoFap control your life. Go for this girl, and if eventually you two end up in bed and eventually you have problems getting it up or lasting more than 1min, who cares? In the internet and when you talk to your friends everyone is some sort of pornstar that lasts hours, in reality people are just people.

If this girl is any good she will not have a problem with pied, if she has a problem, she is just a worthless, and you can add her up to your trophy list.

 

you can ask her out, but know that if she says no it might make her uncomfortable working out with you, its silly and sucks but it does happen.

 

the way i view it is if it is meant to happen it will happen, everyone has a purpose and destiny i believe, and i think if you spend a lot of time with her, the bond you share will grow stronger and eventually it might be able to turn into something else. Just remember this, always be kind to her, never not be yourself, dont be a douche, dont be awkward, always be there for her but not in a clingy or over baring way, the best way to be with her and view her is just as a friend nothing more, and that is when a real friendship will bloom and possibly turn into something.

 

Are you really happy with just a friendship? Be honest

 

Ask her out to lunch or something, wamen like food

 

Ask her out bro! Take a haul of bread and cheese and sit down in front of the lake or in a park and talk the day away.

 

i agree you can ask her about but i would really advice waiting a couple months until your friendship has grown.