Movies with triggers for SOs

I love this idea! I use "Kids in Mind" and "Common Sense Media" to vet tv shows and movies. Even if I watch them alone nudity is the biggest trigger for me, so in our household, we just don't watch shows or movies with nudity in it. My husband and I usually don't go to movie theaters anymore (also he tends to get panic attacks in movie theaters) and we just wait for the movie to come out unless we are both dying to see it (like the new star wars movie is coming out this December and I know he wants to see that). I do miss going to the movies, so would love a heads up about new movies that are out that way I can go to the theater without overwhelming anxiety.

 

i use IMDB Parents Guide a lot....

 

I Google /Parents Guide EVERY new movie.
(At my SOs request)

 

Great idea, @novibe! The first movie that comes to mind is "Sin City: A Dame to Kill For." It feels like soft porn. It's comprised of lots of sex, prostitution, T and A, strippers, and scantily-clad women. Extremely triggering for me and probably anyone who is a PA or SO.

 

Can you explain what this is....

is it an app?

i have found that since knowing what stars are triggers. i panic about all movies now. We are currently only watching cartoon movies :/ till his reboot is done ( not including new starwars)

im terrified to go see Star Wars in DEC. we are seeing it in theater.

 

agreed. there are tons of movies and things that i have terrible anxiety doing now because of the PA. I don't understand why this invisible thing has such a control over us and everything.

 

kidsinmind and commonsensemedia are websites. Kids in mind is the most descriptive so i use that first and if its not on there i go to parents guide imdb and commonsensemedia

 

Thank you @TryingToHeal for this thread!
I had no idea websites like this even existed!i knew there were sites that gave you blurbs about dirty stuff but nothing as descriptive as these.!
This is AMAZING! (i was so bad, that my husband simply saying "what movie do you wanna watch?" would make me start balling or get really pissed because i felt so restricted (with all the unknown of scenes, people,etc)) I feel like some of the unknown about movies ( some of the weight of this PA has been lifted)
I forgot about some of the scenes in some of the movies i looked up. And others parts that would never trigger me that i kinda giggled at that they listed on there ( i went hmm ya i could see how that could upset some). THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU
Thank you everyone else who posted here too.
@AnonymousAnnaXOXO @Kenzi @phuck-porn! @Torn

 

VidAngel is a app that filters Netflix and Amazon and HBO content.
I just heard about it from another parent on here

It's Super amazing.
You pay for it.
But watch what you want... And it jumps out what You pick!

 

Thanks ill have to check it out. right now i have a parental lock on that kind of stuff and he doesn't know code

 

We have this in the Boundaries.
So he can watch/if he does, but I'll see the history.
I understand completely.

 

I don't have netflix
i simply locked the channels for now.

Ooo im gonna have to look for it I am actually super excited.
Like i said some of a burden has been lifted. If we wanted to watch a non cartoon movie. I can look it up and read the parts about it and see if its too much for me or him. and then we can move on. instead of just crying because i dunno how bad a part is and if ill ever be able to watch movies etc.

 

Yes, that's why I am the only one who knows our Netflix password. I don't think the history can be edited without logging into the account (not on the TV itself).

 

what is name of app?
are you on apple or droid?