Hi, So this is a no brainer I suppose, but just sharing, so it seems Most men like most women, most women like few men. What I mean is, if a man walks out the door, he looks around, he like most women, but when a woman walks out the door and looks around, she likes few men. So what this mean is women have higher requirements than a man before liking a man. I am like this, as a single guy when I walk out, I like a lot of women, tall, short, skinny, chubby women, atheletic women, short hair, long hair, woman without makeup, woman with makeup, short nails, long nails. My average joe friend when we go out, they are the same looking around they say, hey that women is nice, that woman also and that also. A fb female friend of mine posted: "I don't even feel special when a man likes me anymore... you men like everybody". One of the comments of a youtube video, I forgot which youtube exactly, he said: "he was working in a gym and most women commented that they havent seen any cute guys yet" This proves the rationale male is right: https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/15/womens-physical-standards/ Again will women admit to the article above ? The loyal men, despite liking many women, eventually he will choose to settle with one woman. An average joe inbox is empty as the dessert, the inbox of a average woman and a stacy is flooded with messages, the chads do get some messages I suppose. Br, Nfp
i think woman have the potential to like more men than you think but overall a womans overall decision making on a partner is not going to be the same as a man. men dont seem to realise how men are you put your oenis inside the woman not the other way around . men impregnate woman not the other way around woman have to carry the child and give birth there are many reasons why women are programmed to pick one guy over another . of you out yourself in a womans mindset you can begin to understand why women are the way they are if you are successful well adjusted good looking dude it tells here this guy is mentally sound he will be good for fatherhood he will be able to provide along with the mother and the child will have good genetics ie happy life obviously very rare very rare lmao by.the sound of it
Most men are unattractive in most women eyes, but most men find most women attractive, there is an article about tinder, men swipe more on the like button than women swipe on the like button. The chads on tinder do get the likes of the woman.
Getting in on the ground floor on this one. OP, if you spent as much time pursuing women as you do making these threads you'd have your own harem by now lmao.
chads on tinder get the likes because tinder is all visual. i see women who look amazing im going to swipe like. she could be a terrible person i have no idea. i think women see a attractive guy they are willing to put up with more of his shit than if he wasnt that attractive. chads jist olay the game because they know women like them and women looking for fun know what chads are about . women want to have a good time too. timder is by the look of it mostly a hook up.site apart from that many women and men jist use tinder to see whats available and how many likes they get but they dont actually partake. i would imagine if a woman gets a like and ahe likes back she will no doubt get a lot of messages . men really don't care they will clock on the like button if they think your attractive
An average joe inbox is empty as the dessert, the inbox of a average woman and a stacy is flooded with messages, the chads do get some messages I suppose.
i joined tinder last month just to look at some of the profiles so wont be paying a subscription ive matched with about 20 women but i notice tinder is obviously a business they use algorithms. and you get a boost in popularity mean more people see your profile. i would imagine there are more men on tinder than woman i could be wrong. obviously more appealing looking dudes get more attention but i also imagime there is a numbers game and the algorithm which you have to pay into. its a buisness and its probably similar to only fans someone told me your matches disappear after a month if you dont start a conversation with who you match with begin to think it is a complete desert. its a buisness tactic but possibly also for security reasons who knows https://www.businessofapps.com/data/tinder-statistics/#:~:text=Tinder has a gender imbalance,is closer to 50/50. 3/4 of tinder users are men
If this it true, The question is why are there more men than women on tinder ? It means the men are having a real hard time getting dates in real life.
A woman don't want someone who looks special. She wants someone who makes her feel special. Of course few of the guys in the gym are interesting before they've got her too feel that way.
I am talking about liking someone at first sight by looking at there appearance. Ofc everyone wants more than physical appearance for long term relationship. Respect is most important I suppose on both sides.
Brother, I am not going to lie. I will never understand the practice of making threads on this site complaining why people can't get girls. When these same people never talk to any girls but their mothers. It's not that hard. Just pretend to not be a maladjusted freak for 10 minutes and you'll find most people are pretty susceptible to engaging you. Stay angry
So I wonder, if women go out and look around, is it true they find few men attractive ? Will women admit to this ?
What the heck, I'm bored so I'll give my lame opinion; Men are here to spread their seed anywhere they can, therefore they are not as picky as women. Women are here to bring a child into this world. She must carry that child for 9-months and will most likely raise that child for much longer. In order to make that sacrifice she is not willing to mate with every chump that is willing to jump on her.
I am not talking about sex and having children, ofc for having children you need a stable relationship and a man you can trust. I am talking about when meeting at first sight. I get the feeling women find few men attractive on first sight, but men seems to be different arent we ? We men like more women on first sight. Ofc everyone wants respect.
I'm also talking about the meeting at first site. Men and women are attracted to each other because of how we are wired to ultimately find a mate and reproduce. Women are not going to pick any guy to be attracted to, they have too much at stake. They will be picky at who they like, where guys will be more open to what they want and see in a woman. Just my opinion, nothing scientific here.
Like I said in my post, me and my average joe pals when we go out, we like a lot of women on first sight, unfortunately I dont have any female friend to talk about these kinds of topics, I do have some very superficial female friends, well that is not actually a friend right ? I wonder if women go out, do they like very few men they see on first sight ? Then again will females ever admit to this ? What I mean with like is, finding them attractive, the physical only. Ofc both parties for long term relationship we want more than only physical attractiveness, respect is important for both.
Personally I don't find most women attractive. To tell the truth a lot of women nowadays are ugly as sin and likewise a lot of men are ungroomed, unfit, and don't dress properly.
Have to admit I kinda understand some of what OP is saying but I think the conclusion I'd draw is that men need to have higher standards for both themselves and women they want to date. Don't put up with a low value woman just because you're horny. Know your value kings.
I am only talking about physical beauty only, men seems to have less requirements with this than women it seems. Ask a men if he goes out how many physical attractive women he has seen, ask a woman the same question, I think men will have more than women. There is a reason why different categories of porn are doing well with men, big small boobs or ass, flat chest, flat ass, skinny, chubby, short and tall, long hair short hair. There are more men that use porn than female.
