Leaving Nofap

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by john1780, Apr 17, 2019.

  1. john1780

    john1780 Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys Im gonna be leaving nofap, I just dont find it as suportive or helpful as I had hoped. I also had a on a few accasions when someone messaged me Id say I was catholic or theyd find out in a post and theyd stop talking to me, good bye
     
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  2. Theamos

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    Why would they not talk to you because you were catholic
     
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  3. john1780

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    no idea but as soon as I said it they never messaged me again
     
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  4. need4realchg

    need4realchg Fapstronaut

    Hey, maybe you are online when most folks aren’t? I have been here 5 days and already have multiple acct partners but I think I am trying to be helpful more than I am trying to get help.

    Cheers
     
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  5. john1780

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    maybe people just dont like taking to me because I have no people skils? I never had any friends ever
     
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  6. john1780

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    Im going to stay for a few weeks then dicide, someone changed my mind
     
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  7. Rairah90

    Rairah90 Fapstronaut

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    John please do not squander this opportunity to make a change and put an end to your unwanted sexual behaviours. There is no other time, now is the time
     
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  8. john1780

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    thank you, Im going to be staying, I gues Im just depressed that its taking so long to kick this adiction
     
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  9. MarcoM

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    Hey john1780! Don't give up this Forum, if there are people who aren't good, simply, don't listen them! Just think about your wellbeing and get only the best. I'm here from 5 days and i found a lot of tips and tricks that i never thought somewhere else! Stay strong;)
     
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  10. john1780

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    Thank you MarcoM
     
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  11. need4realchg

    need4realchg Fapstronaut

    John,

    I suggest you get an AP; it would make it more personal; in the end we all want companionship, friendship, something that's real, not temporal, fake, or quid pro quo... that's what we ought strive for.
    Try to help others by relating what has failed for you. i don't think online forums employ many people skills by the way; it's all electronic so no body lang, visual cues, or even distractions from height, skin color, accent.

    You got this man. Depression is real, but it is also restricted to being in your mind. You can reset the mind; there is more to it.
     
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  12. Coffee Candy

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    i suggest you make frequent status updates about stuff like what day youre on or encouraging quotes..to gain support and friendship :+)
    and visit some profiles and give support too..
    you'll be fine that way i'm sure you will make a friend possibly even 2
     
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  13. mcp8419

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    I posted here a week ago to say I don't believe all the success stories and gonna quit. Then I realised I have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I have no friends and no streak and no life.
     
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  14. john1780

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    thank you all for your support, I have foun a Ap and am making new friends
     
  15. need4realchg

    need4realchg Fapstronaut

    Yeah I'm gonna tell you, my wife would nag me for years saying I needed to stop having all these female friends, and honestly, I have always had male and female but majority female. And when I got married I thought, time to ditch all my female friends to give in to this fear about jealously. I never replaced them, and once I started traveling for work, i lost touch with most of the ones that were
    When we have no friends, it's impossible to be held accountable. Make a friend, improve your margin of error on improving your life.
     
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  16. Please dont leave the site, we are a very supportive community
     
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  17. SirErnest

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    Things aren't always going to go the way you want them to, but try to see the bigger picture.
    It seems you are 14, so it is fantastic that you want to make positive changes.
    Hopefully you don't care if I am an atheist, or that others may be of another (or no) religion. This place is for dealing with a specific thing, pretty much.
    I tend to avoid PMs. Keep your aim clear, and worry not about any negatives that may hit you.
     
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  18. Bombadil

    Bombadil Fapstronaut

    Also, there are are a few people on here who have some pretty serious interpersonal issues. Either, really angry, lost, or just wrong 'uns... Don't be afraid to set your account to ignore the worst offenders.
     
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  19. john1780

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    thanks, I'll do that
     
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  20. Nick:3

    Nick:3 Fapstronaut

    Tbh the same thing happens to me, people don't always reply, especially if they don't see you in real life, that's life imo. As for the forums, I use it to vent or get a second opinion, but I don't expect a lot of PMs or convos since I don't go on here much, and most people i'm guessing only go on this site once in a while.
     

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