Hi there. I am writing this introduction just minutes after having come clean to my wonderful fiancee about my mild, yet persistent porn addiction. It was a difficult thing to do, especially since I didn't realize how disgusted by my actions she would be. Of course, I feel the same shame most times I engage in the consumption of porn, but to watch her face contort and cry and to have her run into our room and shut the door.... It really hit home that a change must be made. Regardless of the fact that I have been looking at porn and masturbating since I was probably 11 or 12, she couldn't help but take it personally and feel like she had done this to me. I understand that. I don't blame her. I am fortunate that she loves me as much as she does, as she has already forgiven me and is willing to commit to a whole 90 days of rebooting with me. I feel so blessed to have her on my side. All I can say at this juncture is that, if you are on the fence, do it. It feels terrible to admit, but to be on the other side of it... I already feel more alive. Thanks for having me. D
You are brave to have admitted this to her. This means you have drive. Use it to quit porn forever. I know you got this. Any questions about this site? I would love to help you. Good luck in your battle.
Welcome. I'm so glad you ca me clean. If your SO needs support we have a private group for SOs here at nofap. I also highly recommend FANOS. See links in my signature. (Turn phone sideways.)
Hey there. Thanks for your reply. I am starting to get the hang of the site and won't be shy if any questions do arise. I feel quite ready to take on this challenge. I can't help but feel a little brave in the face of my admission... it was scary, but now it helps fuel the fire to do this... you're right!
Thank you! This is all very helpful. She will be so glad to have a support system, too. I love the idea of FANOS and we will definitely give that a go! Thanks again.
