I wish i could meet a needy clingy lady that wants affection closeness layin on top of eachother Kissin all the time. Having her legs wrapped around my waist carrying her everywhere
Hey bro, I guess there would be such a girl out there for you. But you have to be the best you can be too. Like a non fapper, non addict, really nice smelling, healthy, buff, good looking version of you, that you can be to attract such a woman. Just not sure what you mean by clingy, as that can indicate someone with a lot of baggage or traumatised or with emotional issues haha. Probably you mean just physically clinging on to you haha
There is mate, but for a healthy relationship, we need to fix ourselves first. It's a hard thing to grasp and accept, but such a woman you can find everywhere, it's us at fault Jusy try, prove me wrong if you don't believe me. Focus on yourself for a couple years, not on the hopelessness of not finding anyone. You'll be surprised how much can change
I am defininitely sure there is ! But it takes some effort from your side. Lets be honest, you cant find such girlfriend if you keep consuming porn and stay in your room all day. Its very possible to find what you are looking for, but it takes massive action.
Abstain from pmo Get a new wardrobe/nice fitted clothes New watch New haircut Hit the gym Read Exercise Don’t be afraid to research men’s style and fashion All sounds very vein but you’re worth it bro. Give yourself the ego boost!
There's a fine line that defines balance. Who you are defines what kind of a partner would make you happy. Of course, certain care and hygiene are common sense, but further from that, I beg to disagree with you. If I don't care aboit fashion, but go to all lengths to get style, and fancy clothes (and so forth), I'll attract that type of a girl. And I'll end up miserable, in a relationship that does not fot who I am. Whether it is fashion, or particular hobbies or interest, first master yourself, see who you are. Get into groups of similar interests. That's how friendships are made, and that's how solid relationships are made, by finding that common string that will bind you together.
That’s very true. Balance is key. But if you’re dress sense is terrible and you don’t take care of yourself the girl you attracted will be the same.
That's my point, and? I repeat, taking care of yourself is one thing (very important as a civilized being), it's another to pretend you care about things you don't. In a relationship too, balance is important. There's compromise, and there's molding oneself to what the other dictates. I've had relationships, with great girls, and they were great until PMO destroyed them. And my sense of fashion is grabbing whatever comes first to hand, with a suitable degree of comfort
Ask yourself,:"What type of man would such a woman be attracted to?" That's the type of man you'll need to be. Is she attracted to a needy, porn-addicted guy who wishes his life away? I don't think so. Jettison the porn. Lose the wanking. Toss out the wishing. Be the man she wants.
Sure be yourself to attract the right of girl for you. The point is not so much about which fashion, it could be emo fashion, hipster or punk or whatever fashion as long as it shows you put effort into the thing you are into so that you look good to your target audience. I think this be yourself line is a cliche. What if your taste in stuff is so individual you creep out every girl eg. Comfortable walking around in your birthday suit haha. The point is when we live on our own, flat on our own, or withdraw with pmo we do stuff that pleases us but not necessarily those girls we want (unless you are super cool arty musician type with a charismatic ego who people just want to follow, but then you probably wouldn't be on here reading this). When I met a girl, I had to lift my standards in a few areas. Because to be honest we just get eccentric living just to our own tune. Girls are great because they round off our rough diamond edges.
That’s true mate. My friends girlfriend used to buy clothes for him she liked. He started getting a lot of attention off other women so she stopped it haha
I don’t mean my other post to sound shallow but self worth means a lot. A lot of style can be achieved without buying really expensive brands
It's not a cliche, but some use it as justification for pathological behaviour. Humans aren't that different from one another, we're social beings. Birthday suits, animal cruelty, mud eating, whatever, those don't fall in the 'be yourself'. I didn't just say 'be yourself', but 'become your own master, find out who you are, be yourself'. I can't be myself until I am free from PMO's rule over me, the question of how may I find someone to love me for who I am has no answer now, because it's not the right moment to ask it.
We'll... Cause I can't approach I'm I That's thing I dress well I smell good I just never had a girlfriend , I don't know how to approach them. They look at me I look at them it's just I can't do it
