Is it ok for women to not have sex the first month

Seek and ye shall find. If you're looking for a girl that has that description, she will appear at some point.

 

Why do you want to wait? Sex contributes to create connexion and deep relationships with women. It’s 100% positive. If you wait you become friends with women because they have their lives.
I never met any healthy girls willing to do 10 dates without having sex
It’s just not good for the relationship

 

Most girls are willing to wait.

 

Your body's response to a physical female body in front of you is likely to be completely different to its response to p*rn (that is definitely the case for me and many others on this forum). Don't tell yourself you have PIED if you have zero evidence of that.

I pretty much agree with what Spirituss said (^), although most women would be happy to wait a little bit. Sex is a positive thing and it will give you a huge confidence boost. I'm not saying rush into it, but I don't really see any need to actively avoid it in your situation.

 

You don’t need sex to date I never did and my wife and I dated without sex before we married, it strengthens the bond. Sex is just one part of the relationship. Plus you don’t want to have sex with someone your not going to end up fully committed to, that causes many issues such as insecurity, emotional detachment, possibly unwanted pregnancy, emotional and hormonal bonding to someone you will leave and May end up hating in fact. Etc you fill in blanks, bad idea. But you’re gonna do what you want to anyways, just figure out the parameters, consequences of your actions

 

Sex creates connection. With EVERYBODY, even bad match. If u wait, u see if the person is really good. If u have sex, u are IN and you have no idea, if she is really good or not.

Btw I dated a girl for like 10 dates and we had 1st sex today. So ofc its possible.

 

hope you didnt O... how was it

 

Around 2 months I guess

 

No I did not O it was nice after 9 months of celibacy...it also reminded me sex is overrated. Problem with sex is that if you do not have it, we tend to give it more and more value. When you have it again, its like "oh its still this..."

 

It depends on what u want. If you want to find a good match, u need to wait with sex. 1 month is ok time to start to realize, who the other person really is. If u skip this part, its just a loterry. If u loose in this lotery, you pay laters 100 times more. You pay in terms of huge drama, arguing, maybe she will start to sleep around, bring home STDs, your life with her will be miserable, and her life with u will be miserable. One day, it will end, you will be beartbroken, suffering like a pig... all because you skipped the most important part! Yes, waiting will reduce the number of girls u end up with. Because it weeds out the incompatible ones. So it depends once again, what u looking for. Quality or quantity. Than u adjust the strategy accordingly. Im so beyond quantity man... it brings just pain

 

Many are. Some maybe not. If you’re truly interested in getting to know them, tell them up front. A lot of women want a dude who actually wants to know them, rather than just have sex with them.

 

Ain’t nothing wrong with that.