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is dating during NoFap is a good idea !!

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by lexileone, Aug 29, 2017.

  1. lexileone

    lexileone Fapstronaut

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    when i start nopmo after 1-2 days i get thoughts to get a girl and to approach some, but my immature mind comes in my route and can't do anything because of fear and hesitation. So should i silently continue my nofap and say to myself that i should wait for a little till i become little confident or should i start doing things to make my mind learning from day 1

    some personal info: I'm 21 old virgin, haven't talked a girl from 5-7yrs i.e the day my teenage started.
     
  2. I think it's best to not have a girlfriend until you're completely rebooted. A girlfriend won't really help you quit porn.
     
  3. Reborn16

    Reborn16 Fapstronaut

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    I have fear and hesitation in approach girls, but I also want to build my confidence with them!

    Here's what I'm doing to build confidence & communication skills...
    - chat to the checkout chick, ask how her day's going
    - ask that cutie for directions to the library
    - make a friendly statement about a dog a woman's taking for a walk at the park

    Later down the road you'll be able to lean on all these previous small chats to make better convo with a girl you want to date.
     
  4. NewManV

    NewManV Fapstronaut

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    I say yes, getting some female interaction would help you associate the right thoughts to a real woman instead of digital and porn. Start of slow, connect with her and enjoy the company.
     
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  5. start talking to girls for small stuff and then basically when you are used to talk to them you will be ready to ask a girl out. it is not frightening, I assure you. :emoji_blush: I used to be that afraid about guys (i am a girl), i couldn't even stay in the same room just with guys and i didn't look at any of them. btw i kissed for the first time and lost my virginity at 21. you just need to socialize more. socializing is the way to become confident and be at your ease around people :emoji_muscle:
     
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  6. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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