Is crossdressing bad?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Bingles, Jun 15, 2023.

  1. Bingles

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    i feel sleepy i'm gonna go make a cuppa and go to bed goodnight
     
  2. she-dernatinus

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    I always wondered, why autogynephilia was a real fetish but autoandrophilia was nonexistent ? Why would that be ?
     
  3. Onceagain2.0

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    you could say the same about kilts except they are seen as masculine and a dress is obviously seen as feminine i think.the actual item of clothing could be made to seem irrelevant but its the concept of feminity as a male is what you would really have to clarify .

    could it be they want to feel closer to a women on some way trying to experience what women do when wearing a dress and make it sexual or do they take it too far and start

    maybe they hate being a man
     
  4. You better get a good 8 hours. This is a threat.
     
  5. she-dernatinus

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    There are other potential reasons, like them wanting to become their own pornified fantasy woman.
     
  6. You're right, but as an English person I definitely do not consider kilts masculine lmao.
     
  7. Pornography by it's very nature (or at least any porn with women in it) manipulates the viewer into disassociating from their own pleasure and attaching it to the woman in the scene. Over time a man can become aroused not by the idea of having sex with a woman, but by the idea of watching another man have sex with a woman, or in extreme cases, the idea of being a woman having sex with a man. The reason you often don't get women sexualising the idea of being men anywhere near as often (you have to assume some women experience it, we can't possibly speak for everyone on earth) is because of the way most porn is framed.

    I hate that it's considered controversial to say this when it's so obvious it's blinding. Male brained fetishists are turned on by the idea of being women but because they are fundamentally maladjusted they don't actually know what a woman is, beyond the obvious sexual characteristics. I've unironically seen people aroused by the idea of having a period, and there's no amount of bleach on earth to wash that from my head. It's ultimately a narcissistic parody of womanhood it's becoming more and more socially acceptable to flaunt.
     
  8. she-dernatinus

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    It's the product of both individual and social factors. Women are seen as sexual objects within our society. For some men, the influence of this vision can reach such an extreme level that the very concept of womanhood becomes inherently sexual in their eyes. Which explains the arousal they experience through impersonating womanhood.

    I wouldn't say that's the primary cause, as the phenomenon you and I are talking about was first discovered by Freud. Porn may play a role, but there's much more to that.
     
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  9. These are action films not war films. Although both have similar concepts the plots are often different, War films are movies about war, action films are mostly stories that have action in them.

    Examples of War movies include, All Quiet on the Western Front, Blackhawk Down, Apocalypse Now, And 1917. Action Movies include, The First Blood Trilogy, Robocop, The Terminator, Kickboxer, and Lethal Weapon.
     
  10. Onceagain2.0

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    There is that but wouldn't that mean they rather be a women than a man . because thats what it implies and ultimately comes down to in the end because you can't just make cross comparisons without preference. i mean there part of the play / the story themselves its not like.they can just switch off and seeing through the eyes of a woman. strange
     
  11. Porn is just one of the methods in which this kind of stuff is pushed and normalised, but it's a key component nonetheless. Suffice to say it's being done on purpose. Just one of many reasons why men and women alike need to not only stop watching porn but actively oppose it.
     
  12. KokoEle

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    It is important to note that crossdressing itself is not inherently bad or wrong. Clothing and personal expression are deeply connected to individual identity, and people should have the freedom to dress and present themselves in a way that aligns with their self-perception and personal comfort. Gender expression exists on a spectrum, and crossdressing is one way individuals can express their gender identity or explore different facets of their personality.
    In my opinion for girls its acceptable but for boys it looks weird when they wear a girlish look dress.
     
  13. Bingles

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    I've seen Robocop and Terminator but not the rest. It all blurs together to me, usually some tragic backstory and a couple of gunfights. Not my kind of film tbh.
     
  14. she-dernatinus

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    It's one of the methods through which perversion and hardcore misogyny are being spread and normalised. And if we look at the words of pornographers themselves, I'd say yes, it's not unintentional.
     
  15. Bingles

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    I got 8 and a half, so even better. :>
     
  16. Bingles

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    That's the thing, I 'crossdressed' long before I ever watched porn and enjoyed it. I want to wear whatever clothes make me happy not because of some perverted fetish.
     
  17. That's too many. You have 6 months to live.

    OK but WHY would that make you happy? Please explain this to me because I really don't get it.
     
  18. Bingles

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    Because I like the clothes and they are fun to wear.
     
  19. Bingles

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    ok enough internet for today i'm gonna go get lunch
     
  20. Bingles

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    there is a large bee outside i am panicking