Husband watches transsexual porn....

Welcome to the forum!
And he is probably deeply confused... But he is fine and going to be fine.
I have a video I can find and send you, as to what happened to his brain... He's In desperate need of a hard reboot.
He will be OK if he decides this is what he wants, however.
He sounds, to me, to be a heterosexual male... Just corrupted by porn.
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask..
And read around.
There are lots of resources.
Good luck and keep the faith
-Kenzi

 

Sometimes P can escalate to different genres because of desensitization to P. The way I understand it is that over time, the addict brain doesn't get the same dopamine hit, or "high", from what it once did and goes searching for something different, novelty, or more extreme to get the same dopamine hit. Similar to a drug addict needing more of the drug to get the same high deep into their addiction than they did at the beginning stages. If this was the case, a reboot can make the porn induced tastes diminish.

 

I can understand your feelings but no, this doesn't mean he is bi or gay. This is a type of porn lots of straight guys get into for various reasons, one of which is novelty and another is just escalation.

It's great that he's been able to admit this to you, and that you're supporting him so well in trying to get over this.

 

Just as another voice of reassurance, I totally agree with all of the above advice! Porn addiction leads to seeking out novelty, something you've never experience before, and trans porn is a common one. I've been into it, myself. I wouldn't be worried about it.

I don't think you need to be worried about either one, but I would say you definitely don't need to be worried that he's gay. He's obviously still attracted to you and to women, so at most, he might be a little bit bi. And if he is, that doesn't really have to effect your lives much if you don't want it to. I'm a little bi, myself, but I'm a woman married to a man, and it doesn't effect me all the much, because I'm attracted to him and committed to him.

He should definitely give up the porn, though, because those confusing thoughts and feelings will only get stronger the more he feeds them. You are his wife and he has made a commitment to you, so there's really no need for him to go out searching whether or not he's into guys. It doesn't matter, because he's not going to be with a guy anyway, because doing so would be cheating on you. So the best thing for him to do, in my opinion, is to just get rid of that garbage porn and stop thinking about people that aren't his wife. It's unnecessary and will only lead to complications.

 

Curious of your opinion. ..why would you be pissed?

 

sorry to hear. that. yeah UTI's are no joke. I can honestly can say I hope he didn't know. other wise I have a very sick puppy on my hands.. I also think the info hit me so hard that there wasn't room for me to be mad about that also. It is disturbing tho. yeah other people BS really sucks to deal with sometime.