Husband needs help

This is a great idea. I am inviting him right now to join this website. He does not realize he is hurting you and joining this site will give him such a boost of energy. Most men are caught up in this problem. Tell him to join and I will pm him then.

 

My Dad who is 72 is still addicted to porn maybe hearing that would help! It really hurts my Mum.

 

What age is he?

 

You need one of the guys who has been through pied and I have not. Try looking up yourbrainonporn their is good information there. Your idea is good but i hope somebody here is willing to write to him for you and tell them their story and how you feel about it all.

 

You can print share my story with him, print it out, or copy and paste it in an email. It's found here. It describes my decent into this addiction with a section on how it has affected my marriage.

 

As the wife of an addict that first told me 6 or 7 years ago, but is still struggling with the addiction, I hope and pray you are able to convince him to seek help! I hope he reads the story and that it works. From the wife perspective I wanted to add, please remember to take care of you as well. Counseling helped me tremendously. In my case, I realized I was jumping in to "fix" things and rushing past my own emotions when I found out he was hiding a porn addiction, and then, later, when he relapsed. If you aren't in counseling already, I suggest you do so. The best advice I was given was, if you don't click with a counselor, move on, find a different one. They are human and not every counselor is right for you.