How to handle rejection of women, just share your opinion

well, at least if you have a job, and if the girl has a job, too, maybe that is enough to make it work. To get any girl you’d like, then yea maybe you’d need to be wealthy or have a high status job, but to get a regular girl, just one, just a decent job would probably be enough

 

Respect brotherheart. I love your moral and willpower.

 

A bit later response but thank you so much. But unfortunately for me it seems that no women wants me, I think I should stop fooling myself and maybe accept defeat after all

 

I think you should reframe your thought process to be more growth-oriented. For instance: "it seems that no women wants me in my current state". What can you improve in your life besides relationships? Are you fulfilled? Do you feel like your life is on a good path?

Big questions, I know. They will inform the following, which I'm guessing is the most significant factor in your interactions:

Are you approaching women in a state of need? Or are you approaching in a state of giving?

Don't give up man. Take a step back, reflect and then adapt.

 

Thanks for your advice and insight. I guess there are some "inner" struggles I have to resolve in order to gain that mental stability I have been trying to achieve for few years now.

When I am approaching women, I except something in return, I mean some respect. Cause it ant easy to walk on to a stranger and give them a compliment like that and when they are rude and reject me I get bitter with it all.

 

Just move on. Next. It's not a big deal. But a rejection could lead to a relapse.

 

I really don't think so. I approach them calmly, with a smile and give them a compliment and introduce myself. They often don't even give me a chance to finish my line. The problem probably is they take a look at me and immediately dismiss me and walk off.
Like one time I was in Poland doing approaches and the first girl I asked if she speaks English. She replied with a loud "No!"

 

I see it as like selling. You are not going to win them all and in some cases the product is good just the timing might be lousy. I've turned women down and regretted it later so surely it can happen the other way round? Is my philiosphy . Also in the past I've been given the polite brush off by women I liked but was not too fussed about and ended up dating woman I thought we're out of my league. Swings and roundabouts I guess