How to handle rejection of women, just share your opinion

If you get rejected, don't think about it. Just move on and find a next potential partner. As simple as that.

 

I've approached over 200 women. I can only take 10 rejections per day, then I'm demoralised and need a day to regain my energy to approach again. Nothing will stop me from getting a woman in my life.

 

I have been approaching women every day since I was 20 years old. 24 today.
I remember when I first started it could hurt.
But I decided to explore that pain when most guys see pain as something to avoid. Because they think that feeling something negative makes them weak.

On the contrary, the more you survive these situations where it's hard, the stronger you become.
There is no way to avoid what you feel after being rejected, it is part of the process.

However, I can assure you that the more you get rejected, the more you don't care about getting rejected, until you get to a point where you've been rejected so much that you can approach anyone and not care about what happens.

That's my case today. I have learned to love pain. I don't see it as a negative thing anymore, on the contrary I know that I will grow from each of these situations.
And honestly, it hurts a lot less now than it used to. Not at all to be honest.

So it's worth it to keep going

 

Even top model are getting rejected. For average Jo, most woman are not going to be attracted to you or already taken.
Just don't care about those woman, just take care of the ones that do find you attractive, let go everyone else of your life and mind.

I see rejection as dodging a bullet, how? I only date woman that have high attraction for me, if a woman reject me is probably because she wasn't that into me, so she rejecting me is making me a favor and is letting me free to date other woman that do are really attracted to me.

 

I watch YouTube advice sometimes.

 

Rejection is so common that I don't even care, I never cared about it. Also there are millions of girls eventually you'll get one.

 

What are you talking about?
I'm talking rejection in any context. Street, church, dance classes, dating apps...

Even rejection after being in a relationship, failure in a relationship.

It's just part of love to not win all the time. Once you realice this it simply becomes more easy to handle even do sometimes it can be hard especially when you have been with a person too long.

But rejection from a stranger or after a few dates it doesn't work out. Well that is just how it is.

Rejection is part of love as feeling uncomfortable is part of growing

 

The key here is getting used to the feeling of rejection, and not taking it personally. The more you do it with this mindset, the less you care in the future. So if you don't care that much of the consequences of being rejected when approaching a woman, you can focus more on the act itself, enjoy it and learn from it. It's a matter of becoming tougher over time, and you can only achieve that with exposure. I would say: don't focus that much on the result, and think this as an art that you end up mastering.

If you think about it, it's the same process as when you start conversations with new people. At the beginning it can be scary for some people, but the more often they do it, the more used to it they become.

 

Get rejected again and again until you don't care about being rejected.

if rejection hurts you it means that you still value what others may think of you. Which is a good thing but to a fairly low degree.
The day you can approach anyone and not give a damn, that will be freedom. And for that, get rejected, go on dates, suffer. And as you suffer you'll realize that all you can control is what you think of yourself.

And if the most important thing is what you think of yourself, why don't you go and talk to this woman? Since you don't care about the "negative" consequences? So my answer is take action and everything will follow

Btw here's my video about my story of approaching women. What I learnt after 4 years of practice if you're interested.



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Nice contribution, I like your video. Thanks

 

Too bad i don't understand French.

 

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my friend, exactly this. Rejections does not hurt me, instead i am proud of me to overcome my fear approaching women. Furthermore in a lot of cases we got rejected because of personal insecurity of women. We should not take a rejection personaly.

 

lol yea that’d be a different type of world