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How to get a girl I am truly physically attracted to?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by HealingBodyandMind, Dec 24, 2023.

  1. HealingBodyandMind

    HealingBodyandMind Fapstronaut

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    Hey everyone,

    So I have a problem.. the majority of my life, the girls that have liked me a lot I wasn't very physically attracted to, but the girls I am physically attracted to either have a boyfriend, are married, say no to me, or have only dated me a couple times and then didn't want to hang out anymore.

    How do I go to that next level and get myself a girl I am truly physically attracted to and really excited to have sex with?

    Any advice out there?
     
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  2. GrittyRunning

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    Your standards might be too high bro. I know because I made that mistake in the past.
     
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  3. HealingBodyandMind

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    what do you mean by too high? Like unrealistically too high?

    do you think this is a result from watching porn videos over the years and searching for a hot girl to PMO to?
     
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  4. GrittyRunning

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    Yes, and yes, it could be due to viewing pron. Focus more on the woman's character and personality first before her physical beauty.
     
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  5. HealingBodyandMind

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    Are you married or currently have a girlfriend?

    okay, I will make an effort to try and see past a girls looks and just try and see her personality/soul/mind/heart/character

    this will help regardless… even to get a more attractive girl too because she will think I’m different
     
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  6. What do you consider physically attractive? Are your standards unrealistic? Maybe patience will pay off. If you give it time, the right person will come along.
     
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  7. GrittyRunning

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    No, single at the moment.
     
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  8. GrittyRunning

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    You don't have to "see past her looks", just don't make it the number one priority.
     
  9. HealingBodyandMind

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    Im honestly not that picky… basically I just want a girl younger than me, who doesn’t have kids, who is in decent physical shape, and has a decently attractive face

    I’m not that picky really, just want to be truly turned on sexually by her and not have to pretend
     
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  10. Ok. I think a lot of men have expectations for breast size and body shape. And honestly there’s not a lot we can do about that. So have grace. That’s all I wanted to say. Have grace with and know that the perfect body doesn’t exist
     
  11. HealingBodyandMind

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    thanks, only problem is I like everyone’s personality to be honest… but I guess I’ll try and think about personality more
     
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  12. HealingBodyandMind

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    okay, thanks, I’ll keep that in mind.. plus the longer I stay away from PMO, the wider variety of girls I find attractive, so I think getting away from PMO is really important
     
  13. SirQwerty

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    Once you get away from PMO, you'll begin to value character and loyalty more. Sex is fleeting, but having someone who will always be there for you is beautiful and something of great value. Me personally, that has become a turn on, and sex is supposed to solidify an already existing conection between a man and a woman. It is really the final step.
    Again though, I believe this is something that occurs as you rewire and detox.
     
  14. HealingBodyandMind

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    Thanks, those are some good points
     
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  15. ascending in looks status fame and doing long retention streak
     
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  16. i feel you, it’s hard out here in todays messed up dating market. don’t settle for someone who ur not truly sexually attracted to. in the meantime build up your physique status money streak looks so you can attract higher
     
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  17. HealingBodyandMind

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    Thanks a lot for the responses, appreciate it.

    on your current streak, have you gotten to a point where you no longer have wet dreams? Or do you still get them every once in a while?
     
  18. very rarely get them nowadays. prob once every 2-4 months
     
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