Help. A girl might have cheated on her bf with me?

You say it kinda sucks for you, which I get, but in a different light, this is a VERY good thing for you. If she had left him for you, she may definitely ave done the same to you later on. Or, her current bf may try to get her back when you're not around. You don't have to waste time trying to romance her because you know she's committed to him. Plus, if later on, things do work out between you two, this will be evidence that she will be faithful then.

 

I get that being lonely is terrible. But believe me when I say you're better off this way, at least as far as this lady goes. But you should take this opportunity to work on yourself without having to work that schedule around an SO's schedule.

Check out what's available to aid us in this battle!
CSAT therapy
the SA 12 step program
Lust addiction podcasts
Porn addiction websites
Addicition books

Work on yourself while you don't have anyone else to work it around or hide it from!

Just my advice. Good luck!

 

I understand that, and it must be rough. But if you rush into something because of the mindset you're in now, I can absolutely guarantee you that you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Use the tools, my man!

 

Yes, tools. These are some of the tools:
12 step SA meeting. (www.sa.org/f2f)
SA program sponsor
CSAT therapy
podcasts
websites
books
articles

This is going to sound Arshad, but when someone says that unless finding someone to be with happens soon, it wont happen at all, that's someone who's either been diagnosed with 2 weeks left to live, they're suicidal, or they're just being dramatic. Why do you think it won't happen at all if it doesn't happen soon? And how soon does it have to be? If you go out there looking for a relationship and give yourself a deadline to find one, my guess is you're either going to fail or the relationship will be absolutely miserable.