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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Xfactorix, Jun 2, 2018.

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    Xfactorix New Fapstronaut

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    I don't Know how to start this, But I am 25 years old, single with brilliant life career that I 've almost destroyed due to suffering with pornography, and masturbation which I got addicted to it for the last 6 years.
    I lost many things through these previous years , missed many good moments with family spending it alone in my room, watching pornography and masturbating.This affected my personality so much, became less self-confident, less conscious, less focus , more frustrating, fatigue, and almost all my social life is destroyed. So I have been looking recently for help to break this bad habits. Tried alone with myself to make my own challenges but i failed them all.. I tried with small group " religious folk" .. well.. "very restricted religious folk" but actually they made me feel worse about myself ,I alomst Hated myself because of them...and I found your page so I decided to go for it,,, I hope it work for..
    Thank you and I'm sorry for the long speech..
     
  2. Welcome and glad you have joined us.
    Feel free to explore the forums and starting a journal of your own to track your recovery progress.
     
  3. Hi. Welcome to forum!

    Make sure you crate a personal journal thread in Reboot Logs section and blog there on a regular basis. As well as just generally be active participant in various forum discussions. I recommend this to everybody new here because it's the major thing that helped me when I was first starting. Just lurking on forums, reading and learning is great. But it usually is so much more powerful to engage. It helps to keep us motivated and accountable when we are active part of community. And keeps this in front of our minds so we don't forget about importance of it and slip away in our old habits. Sharing is also therapeutic. This is a major reason why AA meetings work so good. But that was developed before internet era. These days we can get most of the same benefits online through communities like this. So don't underestimate the power of active participation.

    I would also like to suggest you to look into mindfulness meditation. It has helped me personally tremendously to learn how to deal with urges and triggers. It takes a while to get good at it and notice results, so you need to be consistent with it, but once you do it's very powerful. It has been used by sages for thousands of years to deal with various issues of the mind. And in recent decades the science is also catching up to what ancient sages have know for centuries. Meditation these days are widely used as very effective tool by psychologists for treating addiction and by neurologists for supporting recovery of the brain. It is a great exercise for the brain the same way as jogging is great exercise for the body. Check out this Ted talk, it gives a good idea of what's it about when it comes to philosophy. As far as practical side of it there is this awesome smartphone app called Headspace for guided meditations to get you started.

    Wish you lot's of strength and success in your reboot journey!
     
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