Going on a date with a trainer at my gym?

I dream of an attractive woman writing a post like this about me someday.

Next time, approach him and ask him to help you with a particular workout/lift that's causing you trouble. Men love when an attractive woman flatters their intelligence by asking their advice or opinion about something. I have a feeling he'll gladly spend some time chatting with you about whatever you need.

 

What pretty much superfan said, Everybody loves when you flatter them genuinely plus if he is a trainer then it's because he loves working out, ask him about certain exercises and to teach you proper form (really important) then compliment his knowledge--that should start things up. If he's single and interested in you he'll begin to get closer to you and even pay special attention to your workouts.

Good luck gurl.

 

And if you're feeling particularly bold ... you could ask him about proper form for squats. Tell him your ex-boyfriend teased you about your backside (what a jerk, right?) and that you're trying to work on it. This gives him a reason to check you out, and talk about your form. Plus it gives you a good reason to tease him about watching you in the future: "Don't have too much fun checking my form there, mister!"

 

Be careful with those squat advice, try it carefully to not make him think that you wanna only one night stand.
Also men love when women ask them about help or advice so this is an excellent way

 

Firstly I feel that those were the words of encouragement since you are going to gym you wanna improve ? So the more you will put effort the more fruits you will sow, especially from male perspective you have to put maximum to reap maximum results.
Secondly he have the right to have bad day and some worse emotions BUT if he is spreading his emotions on other people like you it may be sign of emotional immaturity, his motionless face might be a sign of it that he is repressing his emotions and while it's enough and they are flowing up he cannot process them but are surrendering to them and they take control about him.
Overall there are some possibilities - you were factor to kickstart his emotions which is neither your fault nor your business to take attention on it. It's also possible that you are overanalyzing - it happened but it passed so leave it alone to the past and enjoy your next session on gym.
Lastly I wasn't witness of this situation so those are the possibilities - personally I think nothing serious happened and I would completely leave this situation behind me

 

Yes you should definitely talk to him ! And check what kind of person he is When I wrote about leaving situation I meant to leave those one situation of him saying to you "keep going", not the idea of trying to talk/meet/date this guy I'm standind on point that you should definitely allow yourself to talk to him and check where it will lead you, c'mon it may be a nice adventure

 

You answered yourself, there WAS no green light. Try gently a couple of times and if there will be no green light you
have to leave idea of flirting with him.

I sense a strong EGO here that is unsatisfied.

 

Lol ask him for advice, have a chat with him, and aim to secure his number, as you have to make contact with him out of the gym (i.e. a date).

 

Not really, sometimes you can't motivate someone with a happy face, to some people it might seem like you are making fun of them (I've trained some friends, one asked if i'm making fun of him cuz i had a smile) so he kinda needs to be cold to his clients, it's up to you to show him that he can be more warm, be playful and he should be too.

 

Drake sucks.

 

Pics or I don't believe lol