Girls who hoard friendzoned boys.

Whiners always get friendzoned. Or is it wieners?
Jokes aside, best advice I can give you: put some fuzz on the kiwis.

 

Right. Good luck with that.

 

Makes sense!

 

We never know a girl until we get to know her, and then we still have a lot to learn.
I knew a girl a few years back. She was beautiful, had just broken up, was totally eligible, was all smiles, and was surrounded by boys. She was not interested to the point that she was ready to leave her prom dress hanging in her closet. Turned out that her boy friend had dropped her as soon as she had the abortion that he wanted her to get. Nobody knew, not even her parents. She just smiled and kept her grades up. It took a young man who could listen and care for her, and she came back to life. He quickly realized that she was rebounding, crashing, grieving, hurting and trying to just survive behind an awesome smile that hid everything from friends. They enjoyed the prom, but didn't last. She was in no condition for something lasting, but she had begun to heal well when he went on to college. Until we make a big effort and get past the smile, we never know.

 

..the whining continues...

 

"Whiners get friendzoned" is entirely irrelevent to this post, rather, he just simply needs to move on and be more clear and assertive with his intentions. Have a happy day.

 

It's entirely very relevant. He will move on, whine some more and get into the same shit he's in now then comes back to whine some more.

 

Eh, takes one to know one I guess.

 

I do it all, but never whine. So suck it.

 

You're whining again. Bro seriously stop. Grab some bullocks and be a man. I can help you with any woman you want, truly. If you'd like come to where I am and I'll show you in person. She's just a girl and you're making this fuss about it because you feel like a loser. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and move on. If you can't do that on your own get some help. You want help from someone nicer, then you should seek that.

 

That was beautiful dude. Oh my gosh.

 

The friendzone doesn't really exist, or rather.. it's not girls putting guys in the friendzone, it's you putting those girls in the friendzone! You keep finding girls that you want to fuck/date/whatever and treating them like you just want friendship and nothing more. If you do that, guess what happens: friendship, and nothing more!



This video is a bit exaggerated for the purposes of comedy, but the part at the start is my favourite. I remember I used to fall into the trap of thinking I had been "friendzoned" by girls, when in actual fact, I've come to realise that the "friendzone" is a place guys themselves create, by acting just like "friends" around the girls that they're sexually attracted to or emotionally invested in. You don't expect one of your guy friends to just out of the blue ask to suck your dick do you? So the same applies for girls. You've got to express your intent from the get go (and just a little flirting doesn't count as expressing your intent) and make it happen.

Also, girls tend to be good for seeing you for who you are right now rather than who you were a week ago. So that means, even if you've acted like "just friends" in the past, it's never too late to change that and man up and have a proper man to woman interaction with her. If you want to get yourself out of the self-imposed friendzone, quit acting like her friend!

 

If you want sex with a woman, then you simply need to tell her.
I found that women are astoundingly open, and you can talk extremely direct and straight with them about sex.

 

You put yourself in the friend zone by not being assertive or having self confidence.

 

Yes sometimes a little tough love is needed.

 

I used think about the friend zone when i believed i was in it. But like @Drew140 said, its because i was not being assertive or self confidence. Now i look at the friend zone as an excellent place to be, as in, the zone where you have FEMALE FRIENDS, not the type of friendzone where we be sad little girls and let infatuation get the best of us! if you like girl, let it be known right from the beginning! get your intentions across straight away. If she turns you down, who cares, Friend zone HER!