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Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by GypsyPrince, Jan 11, 2018.

  1. GypsyPrince

    GypsyPrince Fapstronaut

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    I joined this forum to forge some brotherhood of sorts. I was hoping that I could have some type of kinship. At the start of my sign up, I received a pop of welcome and journaling has been very therapeutic. I have been encouraged to be more active and that the supportive members will build. I can not help but to feel discouraged as I go through the journal forum and respond to people like myself who are awaiting replies to their posts. It is a very lonely place to be. Especially when you see the posts around you with hundreds of replies and you with 0. Just something I thought I would share. WE are all on here for encouragement and support. Perhaps as you participate for a bit you forget about what it was like to be a rookie. Maybe this will serve as a gentle reminder.
     
  2. LilD

    LilD Fapstronaut

    I noticed that people who have lots of replies in their threads are those who often reply to the others.

    Just like in real life, if I want people to talk to me, I come up to them and start talking. Waiting for them to talk to me without doing anything doesn't work. And I have to say this forum is much welcoming than real life.

    When I came here, I didn't expect anyone (except for search engine robots) to be interested in my journal, so I started it to track my own progress, and I was pleasantly surprised to see people actually reading it. Sometimes, when I see a first post of a new member, I say hi, sometimes giving an advice.
     
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  3. I agree with @LilD
    In one hour this thread is watched 12 times, so people do see you.
    But the thing is: hang out with others here.

    For me: I try to write daily in my journal, that helps me to order my thoughts. I'm happy if somebody give a reply.
    But that doesn't happen every time.
     
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  4. Little kitty

    Little kitty Fapstronaut

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  5. Joona K

    Joona K Fapstronaut

    I trying to find... But where is your journal?
     
  6. Joona K

    Joona K Fapstronaut

    I found it finally :)
     
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