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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Kokoos, Jul 4, 2018.

  1. Kokoos

    Kokoos Fapstronaut

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    Hi!
    Since i was 11 years old, i have been watching gay porn,and im kinda addicted, its even that bad that i look at guys, but when i was younger i also had crushes in girls, and i still can masturbate thinking of a girl but the orgasm is not that strong. So guys do thinkin nofap can change my sexuality?
     
  2. mcade

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    Me personally I don’t but I am bi. I think sexual orientation is something you are born with and we are all on a scale, some very straight some very gay and a range between. I don’t think you should stress over you sexuality but instead focus on stopping the porn.
     
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  3. Sexuality is not black and white. It's very very fucking grey. There are a lot of guys who watch gay porn and they're completely straight. If you started off watching gay porn, I'd say you could be bisexual. Most guys start off with straight porn and their addictions lead them to gay porn, but if you start off with it then I'd say you might be bisexual. Give NoFap a good 90 days and if you still like guys then you're probably bisexual. Just be yourself pal.
     
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  4. SharingTheLoadHelps

    SharingTheLoadHelps Fapstronaut

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    Work on the adiction and let nature do its job.
     
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  5. Headspace

    Headspace Fapstronaut

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    May I refer you to this thread: click here. It might be HOCD, but who knows, one must say that you started really young with that, it could sit quite deep. I agree with @SharingTheLoadHelps, though, it's the best thing you can do.
     
  6. Gabriel2017

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    Hi @Kokoos
    You see, the porn type you are addicted doesn't necessarily is linked with your sexual orientation. You can be straight and you can be aroused with gay porn or transwoman porn (and the same the other way around).
    I didn't understand what is actually your sexual orientation. Are you supposing that you are gay just because you are addicted to gay porn since you were 11? Or do you actually have experimented with guys and you have found out that you liked it? Or you are unsure about your sexual orientation? Please I would like to know that so I can try to help you better.
    But I agree with many fapstronauts opinions here: if you work on the addiction your head will become clearer, so you can actually know what you like and what not.
    Cheers!
     
  7. STAR DUST

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    I think you are bi wit 60-40 men women
     

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