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Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by strongminded33, Mar 23, 2022.

  1. strongminded33

    strongminded33 Fapstronaut

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    I started watching porn at a very young age (8 years old) I'm now 16.
    Normal porn doesn't really give me as much pleasure as femdom porn
    like humiliation and i also got a foot fetish from watching foot worship videos on pornhub
    I started watching these videos every single day and loved it so much It just felt so good to be humiliated. But i want to stop because I feel that it's giving me a lot of brainfog and I want to get rid of these fetishes and kinks. But it gives me so much urges.
    Any advice?
     
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  2. sum1

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    I have a crazy foot fetish as well. Those videos really now how to hook you in. I don’t have any advice to offer you unfortunately as I am still trying to figure things out myself. Best of luck to you on your journey. Admitting that we have this problem is a great first step as it will point us in the right direction. Feel free to dm me if you’d like.
     
  3. IrishMan77

    IrishMan77 Fapstronaut

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    Listen to Your Brain On Porn from Gary Wilson to learn about the addiction and how to overcome it.

    Whatever the way, you would have to stop P. consumption to heal. The knowledge you acquire help you making abstinence sustainable. About that, I believe « normal » sex is compatible with recovery.

    Good Luck
     
  4. Peiskos

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    This is a slippery slope because watching a specific genre like that has a chance to escalate to something else or you will just continue to become more addicted to femdom porn, and it will cause PIED (porn induced erectile dysfunction) so when you're with someone in real life it isn't arousing to you because you've trained and conditioned yourself to only femdom porn.

    You need to understand that you are in a pit right now and you need to climb out, I can help you if you want to DM me, I've been there. The cure is to stop watching porn, stop thinking about it too, stop touching, edging etc. Finding hobbies, constructive things to fill your time with instead, working on yourself and building a better life for yourself, a better future. It can start right now if you choose. You can do it.
     
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  5. IR254

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    Best kind of advice I can give from my experience, is to limit your access to porn. So, basically that means install blockers, which work and don't have loopfholes. Research, try out, and develope a system, that works for you. Willpower isn't enough in my experience, at least for me. Blockers are a pain in the ass, yes, but that's kinda the point right? Just try them for a few weeks.
     
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  6. Longtime27

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    @strongminded33 I also have a 'fetish' addiction for the same things you mention, as much as i have a 'porn' addiction. The fetish addiction to these things is all porn induced. You more than likely don't actually like or want this stuff in real life.

    For me (still battling it), the things I would suggest that have helped massively are:

    1. Block all that content on your devices and/or ween yourself off onto stuff that is closer to what actual sexual / human interaction is like (all those scenarios are very unlikely to manifest in real life unless you pay for them).

    2. Be mindful, think about the fact that it is artificial, and real life you probably would not enjoy these activities.

    3. If you really need to scratch that itch, my advice is try it for real (if it can be done safely). I have lived out some fetishes and fantasies in real life, and it's a very different experience to what you imagine it to be like sometimes. Usually it made me feel very differently and not want to engage in those fetishes.

    Best advice is just try to avoid it if you can. It is a trap, and the content is powerful. At your age you have a great chance to avoid and not get hooked if you are already aware. Your brain is still maleable and you can learn differently (think about your grandparents generation who weren't taught that smoking gives you cancer - if they had known, would they all have smoked so much)

    Feel free to DM me if you want any advice friend :emoji_muscle::emoji_fingers_crossed::emoji_metal:
     
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  7. MitchA

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    Yes. Quit PMO for good, and go through a reboot. That means...hands off the goods even without looking at anything. Also its important to not just make the change of quitting. Its important to replace it. You're a sixteen year old male...get to a gym and work out. Get into hobbies and learn new skills...even if you suck at them at first...do them if you have even the littlest interest in them. Successfully quitting means successfully shaping yourself into the image of the man you'd like to be. Write down WHO you want to be...and then right down HOW you're going to be him. And no, don't include anything about partners in that. Just you...write it down, and then start to scratch and claw your way to implementing it. You're a man...start fighting.
     
  8. I have a foot fetish as well as several other "interests" I feel like it's best if I got rid of them. Or at least reduced them.
     

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