fellow fapstronauts, why do you feel so bad about being single?

davido548 · Dec 24, 2020

My ex GF used to get some fun with a guy because she dind¿t feel I gave her enough, lst year I was ficting a substance addiction, I invite her to talk because I didn't feel comfortablew talking about my substance adiction with my fathers, thath day she pretend to came back with me from one day to toher like if anything hapened, she told me thath she never reallyloved thath guy, but I don't find her as someone reliable to start again a relationship, even this year one of my brothers died of coronavirus I don't want to have she near of me again, if she finds someone who likes her more than more than me I think is the kind of people who has no problem to left someone to one day to another, I'm not proud of being a lonely wolf because I didn't choosed it, but I wouldn't be with someone unreliable or selfish just to feel better sometime, I left her two years ago; I raher to waith to find me a girl who shows herself relaiable and not only to seek their own convenience.

TheForsakeen · Jan 4, 2021

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I feel if i had someone with whom i can share my darkest secrets, my life would have been a lot better.
People value the things most that they don't have.
I see many people saying being alone is not a problem.
But how about being alone for more than 2.5 years?
I can tell my story. I always used to be a bright student during my school and college days. My family saw me as some prodigy. I am the youngest one in my house so i am always left out on many matters. Its not that my family is toxic but since they had high expectations of me, so i could never gather courage to tell them about my mental issues.
We humans are social beings and we need someone to talk to.
I could not share everything with my family, I had no friends( i left them coz they used to bully me out of jealousy in my school and they started bitching about me behind my back to the people I never met in my entire life). I was 18 when i left my toxic group of friends. I thought being a lonewolf was something to be proud of. My college life was fucked up right from the start. I could get good grades but had no social circle.
It was my gf that was my only hope. I used to tell her how shitty my day went and listen to her stories.
And then oneday she left. She knew how messed up my life was but still she didn't care. Out of loneliness i got into PMO as i thought it was filling the void. But things got worse.
I survived 2.5+ years alone, i dealt with my insecurities alone, i am dealing with my OCD alone, and social anxiety alone.
I know how it sucks to be alone.
I can proudly say I am a lone wolf. I fought all these years and never gave up despite all the suicidal thoughts that crossed my mind.
But.
But if i had someone, someone that told me that they were there for me, my life would have been a lot better. I would have been a lot better person than the walking mess I am.
I still don't have anyone trustworthy, and being a 21year old Virgin sucks.
So i challenge anyone who says that being alone is good.
People who have been alone for a long time develop fear of loneliness.
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dude i thought you meant 25 years lol; myself i believe a man should take some secrets to his grave but thats just me.

Deleted Account · Jan 5, 2021

TheForsakeen said: ↑

dude i thought you meant 25 years lol; myself i believe a man should take some secrets to his grave but thats just me.
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Its ok everyone has their own way of thinking. But time spent alone is time spent cursing yourself in darkness, be it 25years or 2.5years.

Basic Element · Jan 5, 2021

Everything depends on a person.
But loneliness is a kind of addiction too. You don't care much about others, because as a rule they don't care about you. Moreover you are free to do everything you want. You don't have to report on various things you have done.
But this is a positive side.
Negative - everyone chooses for oneself whether they are free, or lonely.
...but in the end, you can be lonely with someone. Though, it's quite a tough call. People are different, and right now it's a complicated task to find someone who will support and understand you...
But if you don't try, you won't now.
It's always easy to sit and guess...

davido548 · Jan 6, 2021

just to rememeber:
Being alone: Not ahaving any social contact, including friends familiars, etc.
Being single: just not being in a relationship.
It is a fact thath singles are people wich used to be very sociable,my brother for example has been married for 8 years and he lost contact with friends, even he didn't hang up with me until this last year thath our other brother died.
P.D This weekend I pretend to make a party and I'm seeking as many girls as I can, because parties are just parties and not real parties without girls

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