Eye contact video practice!

I wouldn't waste your time with this. Practice eye contact in real life with real people. "Tricking" your brain using video instead of real life isn't far removed from tricking your brain with porn. Just my two cents.

 

5 seconds of real-life eye contact > 5 minutes of staring at your monitor pretending it's somebody. This is just an excuse to watch video of an attractive female smiling at "you". You can pretend that watching a POV BJ video will help your confidence too. What actually helps your confidence is improving your self-esteem by creating and finishing goals, taking care of yourself mentally, physically, emotionally, practicing appreciation, being prepared, knowing your principles and sticking to them, etc...

2 more cents

 

So has this helped you?

 

Sounds like it may be helpful to some people. If you do find this improving eye contact in real life then tell us.

 

1. This is definitely helping...............and

2. this should help most of the people because it is kind of easiest way to start making eye contact.

3. in real life , it is kind of difficult to find people whom u can actually look for longer time without getting distracted.

4. pixels are not people , but in reality, we have thousands of pixeles near you , it is impossible to keep people near your every time at your own wish .

5. we must find many more ways to get most out of this pixels. thats the only key for us.

 

@sparkywantsnoPMO I know what you mean as far as that spacial distance, its a weird little phenomenon that happens there. I found that when my eyes can't gauge or focus, look at the bridge of the person's nose...and make sure you're 'listening' to what they're saying opposed to focusing too much or thinking of the eye contact lol. I've had that happen to me plenty of times and then it just becomes unnatural and I miss chunks of what they said. Also if you have trouble processing what they're saying because of the eye contact, just look away for a brief moment to really hear what they're saying, and then look back when you you feel you're more engaged.

 

Dude that's fucking awesome. Thanks for sharing.

 

Look at one eye, or her nose, between the eyes, or those general areas. If you have eye contact with someone, they're only looking at one eye at a time at the most, so it's okay for you to do the same. That's normal.

 

Is it ok to practice eye contact in mirror
I have done it a number of times.....jus j to observe my facial expressions.....
What are your views guys?

 

It's very different to hold eye contact in real life and on a screen, In real life there is something magical about it that gives you certain feelings inside when you do it. This video didn't give me anything at all.

I would recommend people to just hold eye contact with strangers everyday, all day, in their lives.

That's how I developed my confidence in holding eye contact and really it's just about having confidence in yourself.