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Edging superstition

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by En?gmatic, Mar 3, 2024.

  1. En?gmatic

    En?gmatic Fapstronaut

    I have this ''Edging superstition'' that is kinda bad. I imagine that if I edge I absolutly need to relapse, even if I have all the will to not do it. Some consider edging a relapse, but if we can be honest if one is able to immediatly stop edging and go back on the track and save himself then he's ok. But for some reason when it happend to me in past, I was always thinking that if you edge then you need to relapse because you already compromised the recovery so it does not matter at all if you relapsed or not. For me is some kind of superstition. What do you think, do you think that if you edge you should relapse, because it hooks your brain, make you go back on porn, ecc?
    Idk which the real rule should be, perhaps stare at porn should be already considered a relapse since you crave for porn and feed your brain with the addiction.

    I remind people said that edging on porn without release make them have blue balls and the best solutions is to relapse (some does not do it and just stop edging, wait that blue balls go away and continue the recovery) , but two years ago when I did something like 30 days of edging without release anything I never got blue balls, so I suppose it depends for everyone.
     
  2. Jett25

    Jett25 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. Would love to talk more about it. Snap is Jaeth125 & Telegram is @BJ1250
     
  3. learning

    learning Fapstronaut

    Probably for most people edging is a relapse. Different parts of the PMO experience can have differing levels of addictive grip for each person, but feeling aroused is a big part usually. Edging is a way to feel aroused for much longer periods which probably only tightens the addictive grip.

    The idea behind nofap is to give your body time away from the addictive activities until it can heal from the damage which might be brain imbalances, psychological habits, etc. (?)
     
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  4. En?gmatic

    En?gmatic Fapstronaut

    Yep. I think there is some kind of ''line'' that should divide Nofap that we should identify. In this case isn't easy when you should be considered ''relapsed''. When you stare at porn after months, looking for it of your own free will, or when you start to edging on it? If someone enter in a porn site, found himself on the home page of the site but has the power of ''leave'' and never looking at it (or being tempted by it again in future), that's a relapse or shouldn't be? Someone could retake itself and exit immediatly from the site and never enter on it, winning that match, other could be hypnotized by it and slowly end back on the porn addiction, reactivating the ''mechanism'' of the addicted brain, like the guy that stop smoking cigs but for some reason enter in contact with smoke, whom secondhand smoke continues to have a certain effect and could bring him back to smoke addiction.

    I suppose we should make some rigid rules for ourself, in this case for now I will consider a relapse the mere act of entering in a pornographic site, even if I do nothing with it.
     
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  5. IGY

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    Agreed. Edging is far more damaging than looking at porn briefly, jerking off and ejaculating than edging for long periods of time. Many do this for hours on end. :(
     
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  6. Edging is probably worse than just getting the relapse over with. Maybe that's a little controversial but I believe it. Of course it depends on what constitutes edging for you - if you're literally already masturbating and just don't orgasm, then you've already relapsed, and not letting yourself ejaculate will just irritate your sexual organs. NoFap is best approached from a completely binary perspective in my opinion - PMO is a reset/relapse, no PMO is not.
     
  7. USER_ERROR

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    I recommend against this, the studies on the damaging effect of just watching porn are very light, personally although i don't recommend it i don't believe it is such a big deal, sex is literally more taxing to your body than lamely watching some pixels on screen. PMO on the other hand has objectively damaging effect easily seen in hormone imbalance (it take 2 weeks for the brain to recover after an orgasm), i think the worst thing with edging is overstraining your pelvic floor but i would consider that a relapse like any other kind of M.
     
  8. IGY

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  9. im_done

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    Uh, all i know is that if i have my jammy and a phone in my hand, I'm not getting anything done.
     
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  10. im_done

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    That explains why so many people act like knuckledraggers. Takes one to know one, though lol. Good info.
     
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  11. M3lios

    M3lios New Fapstronaut

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    for me edging could be anything bc im able manage myself almost exclusively at the point when i know i have to choose for relapse or freedom. Most of the time its an involuntary situation when i slipped on something completely normal or when the overthinking comes up.
     
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