Does being a virgin make you a loser?

If being a virgin makes a man a loser, then...

Spoiler: Video of 'Beck - Loser' -- TRIGGER ADVISORY -- fully clothed girls dancing, one shirtless dude playing guitar

 

First of all congrats on your 68 days PMO Free i am a girl and i gave my first kiss at 21. 2 months later i lost my virginity. i used to be obsessed with having the same experience as the other girls. I felt i was missing out on growing up. after i had sex for the first time i looked myself at a mirror in the house and i felt "mature" and "different" but i ran into it with someone i barely knew with whom i had mutual friends. I liked him mostly coz he was my first one. now i will turn 26 in a month

i would say be open to dating a girl if you feel ok with that and it doesn't interfere with your reboot. do your stuff (about your college for example) but be social, with friends. don't chase it. it will come at you at the right time and you will be ready

i think it is ok to be open to the chance of having s as part of a relationship. dating can be a rich and positive experience especially when you have abandoned the addict in you forever and you are strong in your new life

 

I'm 18 in college and still a virgin. I've finally got my shit together mentally and physically though. I'm not ashamed of being a virgin and my experiences with nofap have given me a new outlook. I want to find mutual love in a long term relationship and lose my virginity to someone I really care about and want to spend my life with. I know that is the path that is best for me and I'm looking forward to that day whenever it may come.

I am really glad to still have my virginity. My choice is not popular, but it doesn't make me a loser. I think it's going to help the relationship I have one day be even more meaningful. Lots of my friends and even my brother who is only 15 have lost their virginity. I don't envy them though, I wouldn't trade places with them. I'm finding greater solace in the long term and not going to succumb to short term pleasure. That's what's going ultimately make me happiest.

 

Most importantly, virgin or not a virgin doesnot make you a loser or a winner.

It is important to not care what others think of you. If u think you are a winner (or loser), you are a winner (or loser).

People's opinion on you should not affect u.

“The greatest fear in the world is of the opinions of others. And the moment you are unafraid of the crowd you are no longer a sheep, you become a lion. A great roar arises in your heart, the roar of freedom.” -Osho

 

exactly 100% agreed

 

Dex? What's Dex? Or should I ask who's Dex? You mean Dexter?
Damn it you got me thinking about detectives who are serial murders now!

 

I agree sex is overrated

 

A few years ago I would have said yes. I lost my virginity at 24 years old because I was so embarrassed that I was still a virgin at the time. By societal standards we are expected to lose our virginity as early as 13 years old especially in North America. I have a sri lankan background so losing your virginity was not even an option unless you were married. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin because it's something you can't redo once you have done it. And you want be in the right state of mind mentally and physically before you have sex with someone. When I lost my virginity, I was an awkward shy, manic depressive who had very little self esteem. What's important is have sex when you're ready and fuck what others tell you.