Did I screw up with this girl?

It's not really that complex at all. I agree with the rest, just be up front and honest with her. Tell her you had a good time hanging out with her and ask if she'd like to do it again.

 

These posts are insane. It's a woman ask her out. It's not a PhD dissertation!

 

Overthinking on steroids

 

Trust me all it's gets you is a prescription for anti anxiety pills not a girlfriend.

 

It's thinking guided by fear. Not the way you want to live life.

 

It's easier said than done obviously but it really is that simple. You just have to pull the trigger and ask her out. If she is down, AWESOME! If not, eat the rejection like a man and continue on your kick ass streak of no PMO.

 

Rejections are difficult to take, but they can be great learning experiences. I had a friend; during his first year at the university, the first 39 girls that he asked out rejected him. Some rejected more than one of his invitations. He took notes, he asked what he could do, he modified his approach, he kept trying, and, with girl #40 he got a date. I knew him after he had graduated. The girls lined up to get asked out by him. I had no Idea how he had gotten so popular. He learned it all through rejection education.

 

Jim Rohn often taught, “ wherever you are be there.“ Basically be in the moment mentally and physically.

When you’re at church, be at church. Pay attention to the sermon, Pay attention to your small group, be in the moment. Don’t be thinking about where you’re going to say to this chick or how you’re going to say it. More than likely she is not there to meet a boyfriend. She is more likely there to establish a solid base of friends and to meet the Lord himself through his word.

I’ve been going to church groups all my life and have lead a few the last few years. I speak from experience and know that chicks are way more attracted to someone who is serious about their walk with the Lord and not someone trying meet a significant other. I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum and putting the Lord at my utmost attention is the best route. Better quality women that way too.

 

By 29 shouldn’t you be comfortable enough to sit next to a girl?

 

Yeah you're pretty much fucked at this point... If she doesn't even want to hug you then you have no chance. Just a reminder that if this was a good looking guy she would have probably given him her number and asked to hang out.

Gotta work on your looks brah

 

It’s not his looks it’s his confidence

 

I’m 6’3” and 125 lbs. I have NO looks going for me. However, I’m confident in other things I can do well and when chicks see that, they are drawn to me. Doesn’t always end up romantically but it’s better than sulking in my lack of looks and PMOing

 

Go for a kiss next time!

I know, its risky....but hey! At east you will know if its a "no,no" or "yes, yes".

 

Ask the girl out. I’ll be married by the time you do at this point

 

I said that weeks ago