Day 91 today!

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Ra's Al Ghul, Dec 8, 2018 at 1:45 PM.

  1. Ra's Al Ghul

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    It's been a while since I been here. I feel great, living the dream. No brain fog; peen is big and full and healthy, rock star hard erections and morning wood.
     
  2. cakeinacrisis

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    Fucking awesome news, my man!
    Congrats :)
     
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  3. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Thanks!
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  5. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Will extend this to get to 365+ days. This whole effort is spiritual/psychological/physical/cerebral.

    274 days to go!
     
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  6. Fellowman

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    You inspire me! Way to go man! Make it a year!
     
  7. Sam am

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    What can l do to became like you?
     
  8. Ra's Al Ghul

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    I think the biggest thing is remembering why you are doing this. If you really want to heal it has to overpower anything else, whether its getting a huge urge, or looking at porn because you're feeling stressed or down.

    My reason is I really want to heal. I don't struggle with porn viewing, but I made a habit of beating off every morning and sometimes multiple times a day for years. I started getting serious brain fog and everything in my life felt numb; I thought I was just experiencing work stress but that wasn't it. I found out the damage I was doing when I started reading the science behind it and it all made sense. I don't want to live that old life anymore, I was down all the time and not even going for a run and/or working out helped me.
     
  9. Putney

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    Well done.
    Your where I want to be!
    Like you pornhub wasn’t the great issue it was more the masterbation every morning and at night.
    And, with that the thoughts that I was having. Which led to use prostitution.
    Any tips for when I get those urgies again?
    Which normally happens when I reach about 25 dats or so.
     
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  10. Ra's Al Ghul

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    To fight urges, you just have to make what you're doing more important than anything else. It has to overcome the urges, and any other bad options like getting a hooker or massage parlor happy ending. The use of hookers/massage parlors is somewhat similar to masturbation, but now you're getting your finances involved as well as possibly law enforcement.

    Also, I have had those temptations to go get a hooker or happy ending massage and decided I don't want to be that kind of guy; I don't want to be the guy that has to pay for sex or sexual favors because I respect and think of myself a lot higher than that. I don't want to stoop to that level, it is the easy way out and a loser way out, it's weak shit. I'm not a weak individual.
     
  11. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Any guy any shlub can go buy a whore. It's a lot harder to go up to a woman, introduce yourself and pursue her, but the rewards are better.
     
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  13. Putney

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    Yep, your spot on about prostitution.
    It is a dreadful thing to get involved with.
    Which unfortunately I was for a few years.
    No more!!! I want to take back control.
    Plus, good idea about fighting urges. There are more important things in life to do instead of pmo. Which wastes so much time!
    Thank you.
     
  14. Ferangi12

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    Amazing my man. I didn't realize how hard this was going to be until I started and failed miserably.

    Need some words of inspiration!! Is there a quote or something that you think about when you are tempted? Thank you!!
     
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  15. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Good quotes are good, but I would say living life on a Higher plane and thinking that way is Paramount. I made up my mind, unless you do that you just fall prey to relapsing and/or wanking and living and being a Wanker and living just like your average Wanker shlub.
     
  16. Innervision

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    Absolutely! I think many issues regarding constant relapses have to do with this fact. You think that by only abstaining physically from old habits you'll get restored automatically. The truth is that a lot of work has to be done on the psychological, mental, moral and even spiritual domains. Once you realized this, you stop fooling yourself around with the same vicious cycle and start make real progress. It's an arduous and non-linear process, but the reward and accomplishment involved can transform your life entirely! Keep up the battle, friends!
     
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  18. 4DCreator

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  19. 4DCreator

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    Well done!
     
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  20. Ferangi12

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    Thank you!! I choose discipline and a better life
     

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