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Being bald-dating Young Girls Impossible.

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Dontcuckyourself, Sep 25, 2023.

  1. Dontcuckyourself

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    So Here I am. Completed a reboot. 90days.
    I am Always the most masculine guy when I enter a rooms, a Supermarket, a Café etc. I have checked my T Levels at day 30 and they are Sky high. Good.
    I dont get it. I am good in shape. And intelligent. 5'9 and bald(Not balding). I Kind of Look rough with my stubble. It suits me Well. BUT in Terms of Girls age 18-22 its Not possible to Connect.
    I am 28. I have Green eyes and Look good.
    They cannot sense your Energy or shit Like this.
    So in Terms of Girls ITS frustrating.
    They are Not Interested in bald man.
    ITS the biggest crap ive ever realized.
    Even though I am better in every aspect Then other Guys I Know, IT wont matter cause You cant get your food in the doot in First place. You Know what I mean?
     
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  2. Dontcuckyourself

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    Its Just doesnt make sense:
    So the Guy who ist physically strong and has the good seed cannot "pass on" his genetics. Thats my Observation.
    Yesterday I punched the Wall for this stupid reality. I am about to Accept it.
     
  3. HealingBodyandMind

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    how many girls in the 18-22 range have you talked to?

    also, it could be your age as well, not just because you are bald. Some girls that age might feel uncomfortable or that their friends wouldn't approve of them dating an older guy like that.

    But the question is, how many girls have you talked to in this range. If you talk to 500 girls aged 18-22, and all of them say no, then you have a point. But if you haven't communicated with that amount of girls, then who knows the real answer
     
  4. Dontcuckyourself

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    Situation is Like that:
    Pretty Girl (age 18-19-20) smiles at me and wants to get approached , for example in Front of a Supermarket. I say Hi how are You. She feels confortable and is Happy I approached her.
    We Talk a while. She is into me.
    As soon as I say I am 28 ITS Like BOOM.
    A barrier. The 19 year old sweet Girl seems Like having a Problem with it.
    As if 28 is 38.
    They think I am around 23.
    Wtf man.
     
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  5. Dontcuckyourself

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    ITS Just Not fair man.
    I spend my years to improve and get a good degree. I ve studied electrical engineering, I have an own big Appartement and I am good shape.
    This wasnt possible 5 years ago.
     
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  6. HealingBodyandMind

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    I bet if you talk to more girls in that age range.. you will get one that likes you

    I experienced the same thing when I was 27.. a really pretty 19 year old girl approached me at work.. I got her number and we were texting.. the moment I told her my true age, she didn’t text back again. Completely ghosted me

    however, when I was 31, a girl from my work liked me.. she was 21 years old and didn’t care at all about my age. We went on a few dates and hooked up too. Ended up not working out mostly due to personality differences…

    also, when I was 26, I dated a girl who was 19 for a little while

    it is possible man.. it just takes more effort.. I’d recommend to keep approaching girls in that age range…

    you can get one of them if you keep trying and don’t get discouraged!

    some girls 18-22 age range are more close minded.. but some girls are more open minded and don’t care about age difference
     
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  7. Dontcuckyourself

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    I dont see the advantage to approach tons of Girls.
    If the First 20(!) Interactions were more ore less Like I described above, beside the fact they gave me choosing Signals, I can Imagine where it goes. Most likely nowhere.
    How can age gap be such a turn Off?
    Its more than ironic.
     
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  8. HealingBodyandMind

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    It’s mostly just societal conditioning.. girls have been taught all this anti-men stuff, either directly or subliminally through mass media

    but there are some girls who are rebels. The rebellious girls who don’t care about societal framework and expectations will be more open to it.. I’m pretty sure

    also, if you try and approach girls who are from more lower class backgrounds, that could help as well. Or girls that don’t have a lot of friends

    basically girls who are not brainwashed by anything and are open to make their own decisions in life
     
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  9. Khufu

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    one thing i want to do is see what my t levels are at one a strong streak then check them during a relapse ,because i feel very agressive and alive during high streaks
     
  10. stoicrebooter92

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    Funny. Seems like some bald and (balding men) seem to have no problems.

    Can a Bald Guy Pick Up Hot Girls? THE BALD EXPERIMENT - video Dailymotion

    Maybe its that thing called confidence,charm, flirting and a positive fun attitude. They say it can be learnt maybe you should look into it ;)

    May save yourself from punching more walls.
     
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  11. Warrior4Freedom

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    No offense but you don't elaborate on your personality or character that would either be a draw or evasion for girls.

    I won't comment on the bald aspect, since my friend is 50 and bald, and his wife is 31. They started dating when he was in his mid-late 40's and she was in her late 20's.
     
  12. Dontcuckyourself

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    Need to add that being bald itself is Not a Problem. As soon as I reveal my age the young girl suddenly "notice" I have No Hair.
    Weird.
    I mean Girls arent rational and stuff, but really ngga?

    The Dude in the Video is Kind of funny, but first, He Cold approachs-would never do that. Never recommend.
    And second Its not about attracting any women, Its about attracting women who are in her late Teens/early twenties.
    This Guy doesnt.

    I think Its about emotional maturity. An 18 year old can be more mature than a 30 year old.
    I have hope.
     
  13. Dontcuckyourself

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    As far as character goes, I can make people smile and laugh. Would say I am great Leader. People often ask me for advice. At 28 I have also a great emotional maturity to Deal with Girls. I Lack somehow in small talk, need to improve this erea.
     
  14. nomo

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    When I was in the dating game and was past the age of 25, I found women that were 27-years old or older to be the best. Until they turned 27, they didn't know what was really important in a relationship. They needed to be burned a few times by the handsome guy or guy with all the money, etc.

    Until they realized that a guy who liked them for who they are was better than all the other crap that they are seeing on social media, they were a pain in the ass and played stupid games. As a nice plus a woman hits her sexual peak at around age 35, so the best is yet to come.
     
  15. CrushedandLeaving

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    Older men approached me a lot when I was college age. I was obviously very young looking and many times they were approaching in young contexts (on campus), so I just assumed that they were pretty close to my age from the start and assumed best intentions from them. If they then revealed that they were much older, most of my thoughts were wondering why someone so much older was approaching someone that they could probably tell was much younger than them.
    It's creepy. And with full openness, it's creepy that you seem so obsessed that you only want women in that specific, very young age bracket.
    If a girl didn't find it creepy to begin with, there's very little chance it doesn't become creepy as time goes on. Because the 22 year old will eventually age out of the age bracket you're targeting. Why would a woman want to start a relationship with someone that she so obviously has a hard expiration date of value to?
    You need to focus on recovery until your biggest priority for finding someone isn't that they are barely legal, and then focus on recovery some more before approaching anyone. I know it's hard to hear, but older guy obsessed with dating college age girls is an epitome of creepy mindset.
     
  16. Dontcuckyourself

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    Who do You consider "older men"? Age Gap of 10+ years ?
    No I Just look and feel younger than I am.
    I cant See myself with a woman around my age as Well as I cannot date a 20 year old at 35.
    I prefer an age Gap from 7-10 years.
    Nothing wrong with that.
     
  17. Thor God of Thunder

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    Totally agree. I’m not saying a young woman can’t have be as mature as an older man and have a real relationship. But it seems unlikely that’s the goal for a man seeking younger women.
    I always think. “She’s the same age as my daughter and he’s my age.” Creepy is a good word
     
  18. Dontcuckyourself

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    Read carefully before trying to bomb me with questions. Meanwhile I never mention any of these when I approach them.
     
  19. CrushedandLeaving

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    When I was 20, a 27 year old was definitely an older man. Now they I'm 30, a 10+ year age gap feels less big because we are closer to being in the same life stage, but when we're talking about humans that JUST reached adulthood and don't have fully developed prefrontal cortex....under some circumstances it starts to become predatory.

    So there are two ways to go about this.
    A) meet someone, hit it off, find out that they're actually quite young and continue the relationship anyway because there's a lot of compatibility there. --> that's just living life

    B) have the age you are exclusively targeting to date be that very young age group much younger than you and restrict yourself to that for....reasons. --> creepy

    And most women can tell which one you're doing.
     
  20. CrushedandLeaving

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    Yeah, that's real weird and probably part of the porn brain.
     

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