Are all fetishes born from environmental factors?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by TimeToQuitNow, May 22, 2019.

  1. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    I'm so sorry to hear that. It must have been hard for you. Maybe this childhood is the reason you PMO. Maybe it causes you to look down on yourself. But you are not a loser. We can get through this addiction!

    It's possible the molestation caused your anus fetish. One thing I'll say is don't say it's just light and doesn't really count. Just because it wasn't consistent doesn't mean it wasn't real.

    Stay strong my friend.
     
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  2. InnerFaith

    InnerFaith Fapstronaut

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    thank you for understanding and respecting, i know its anonymous here but it feels like empathy, thank you
     
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  3. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    Chubby girls are pure souls.
     
  4. L'empereur

    L'empereur Fapstronaut

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    Ain't nobody ''pure''. Though I get you. They have often preferable characters cause they not full of themselves.
     
  5. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    That is a very important thing. Some people would say that I pray on insecurities but being modest and not arrogant is something very few people have nowadays.
     
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  6. overclocked

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    No, I don't wish to disclose that information now, maybe another time. But your theory might be correct. I think I was exposed to fetish material while fapping to "normal" stuff. Maybe something appeared in the suggestions and my brain made a connection.
    It had definately taken some time, but once I got that fetish, I escalated rapidly.
     
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  7. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    Do people really tell you that you pray on insecurities? That's sad. Chubby girls need love too :p

    Yea that's basically what happened with me and femdom. It started with lesbian, then mostly pov humiliation and humiliatrix videos for years, then escalated to femdom hypno and chastity slave porn. I didn't even recognize my former self. One time I came so close to buying this hard core hypno video, I never purchased porn on my life. This would have been a new low for me, good thing I didn't do it. I'm on a a 3 week steak and I'm confident I can go further. Hope you get your fetish under control.
     
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  8. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    No one has ever said that to me but I can see it happening.
     
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  9. InnerFaith

    InnerFaith Fapstronaut

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    some level of insecurity is an atractive feature in a woman, in my taste
     
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  10. overclocked

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    Thank you, my fetish is almost gone, and when I do think about it, I feel disgusted or even bored, having become indifferent to my former fetish.
    Everything I escalated to was depicted in the porn I was watching. I never looked for these things on my own or even came up with them. They were presented to me, and for some reason my brain wired to them.

    I know how bad a fetish can be, how much it can consume you. I can assure you that your fetishes will be gone forever if you are brave enough to quit porn and fantasizing. No matter how bad it may be right now.
    Although I had promised to never live out any fetish, I was at some point trying to figure out how I could do it. But I resisted long enough and eventually found out about nofap. I have been sticking to it for years now and I should say that I am so happy with what I have accomplished. My fate was changed for the better.
     
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  11. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    This gives me hope. All the stories I hear about losing fetishes give me hope. I've dealt with this fetish for a long time. At this point I just need to be patient. Hopefully after 90 days PMO free I'll be cured. If it takes longer so be it. I just need to be patient.
     
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