Any way of knowing whether you suffer from PIED without sex + other problems

20 year old here who had been pmoing since maybe 16 and came across the site after struggling to fuck and putting it down to potential PIED and thought i would give the 90 days a try (considering reducing this to 30days for no reason at all). The sex was me losing my virginity and it was also paid for (disgusted now of course) but the one thing i can at least take from it was that I found NoFap, and potentially found out I have a big problem. The sex was rushed and there was obviously very little love from her side. She instanstly when i underessed i was hard just from seeing her naked (making me think i potentially dont have a problem) and she started off giving me a BJ with the condom on which honestly felt a solid 5/10, not much sensation although it didnt feel bad. We then moved onto sex where she was on top and it didnt feel great this was potentially down to the condom but im not sure. I then was on top in missionary and didnt feel that hard which was a surpise to me as i had been waiting for this moment for a long time. She was notacibly rushing me which probs wasnt helping but i had to finish on her feet which was a little awkward although i enjoyed this the most out of the process lol. Currently moving onto day 7 tomorrow and as of right now have had the urges to PMO a few times but fortunately i have held myself together. My problem is that i have a foot fetish and within porn this is what i feel i am addicted too because this is the porn i search for, and given that the weather is getting nicer every time i am out its not hard to find a female in flip flops and its really hard not to explore but hopefully i don't fantasize that much and i can get through this! Another reason why i wanted to post this, is that i dont want to have to experiment sex again just to find out whether i have PIED i kind of want to find out if there is other triggers out there which correlate with PIED for example no morning wood (just throwing a random example out there). Also before i look at a female and think they look real good i would first look at their feet (sorry if this sounds weird but im sure you all understand how strong fetishes are) and if im feeling their feet i would then move onto what they actually look like and even if they was not be that attractive to me, due to me liking their feet i would be more turned on by them and this would work in the opposite direction as well, if i was to see a female and not be attracted by their feet but they were a beautiful girl i would potentially not be interested. Sorry if this is posted in the wrong place, this is my first attempt at no PMO and 7 days in im coping relatively well i would say. Also i used to PMO on average probs once every day but some days i could go 3 days easily without no PMO so this potentially isnt a addiction for me (although from this process i have learned porn is overall toxic and not good)

 

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Thank you for your reply I appreciate it. Im sure once the 30 days is up i will still stick to no porn ofc but the masturbation will be moderate and controlled and done in a healthy way, my problem still is i dont even know if i have PIED due to my experience which is kind of shitty

 

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Thank you for your response. I told a girl i am very comfortable with (im fortunate to have a female friend like this) and actually explained all my problems and actually embraced the situation and wanted to know more. So after the thirty days is up I plan on trying to find a girl that i will try love and have sex with and try build back up that connection through sex. My problem regarding the fetish is that I would always finish when masturbating on like a footjob vid, or someone finishing on feet (for over one year i would be finishing on vids like this) and it has probs fucked me up now because when im obviously having sex my brain is used/wants to finish on her feet or i potentially have to be thinking about feet which is a little messed up but thats me. Will take a look at your post now, and again thank you for the response

 

Haha, thank you for sharing the knowledge bro. Appreciated

 

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Yeah good idea, that defo my plan, Atm coping really well thankfully. Im not sure porn addiction is the problem here like i stated above, but its certainly unhealthy so will cut that out completely. Sorry about the details kind of just wanted to give a full account. My problem is not knowing if its PIED without having sex but i guess thats the fun part!

 

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