Am I Bisexual or Heteroflexible (mostly straight)or Straight?

you have hocd your straight im in the same position exept i dont find men attractive at all just if they have a very feminine butt and thats it and i know it’s from porn because before porn i wasnt like this so you are straight my friend

 

You sound you know what you really like. You will know for sure once your mind is no longer in the haze of porn. It twists us and makes us seek out and feel things to feed that ever increasing need for more. Your mind will right itself in time.
Don't stress over what your preference is now, just focus on healing. Once you are able to think without that porn haze, it won't really matter what you find.

 

Geez, you do not have all automatically "HOCD", if you fap off also to guys or cocks. You have just bisexual tendencies then. Deal with it. You people make a rare syndrom your blanket excuse and reason to avoid the reality, while declaring 90 days PMO abstinence to the all curing miracle treatment. You cannot "cure" bisexuality or being gay or turn a real straight person upside down by porn. I wonder where the fuck your real problems are, when you panic, because of getting excited over any attractive person, no matter the gender/sex?!

 

boom you just answered your own question porn messed up your brain like mine yoir straight dude . just dont watch porn

 

thats where you are wrong my friend . do some more recheard on porn induced hocd and porn induced fetishes

 

Porn can and will change your sexuality in many ways.

How come hundreds if not thousands of people recall never being into certain categories and things then years later wind up watching some fetish or hardcore version of porn they never in a million years would of thought to seek out by themselves (without the use of porn)

 

exactly ! that guy is just dumb and doesnt know what he is talking about . he is close minded

 

Agree 100%. Found myself in the same situation. Men are big hairy apes until you’re in the heat of PMO. Porn twists things. Once you O they are big hairy apes again. Zero attraction to them unless it’s directly tied to a PMO session.

 

It´s so pathetic jerking off to something and declaring later: "Oh no, I didn´t really enjoyed that! The evil porn just made me doing it! Bad bad porn! Evil thing!Disgusting!" And then go for the next round, while blablaing: "oh, i really really despise hairy apish men ugh! Just not when I´m horny..., that is because I have HOCD, I really don´t like that, so that makes me straight!"

I have some news for you, sexuality is not a free choice like drinking alcohol or not. Gay people do not choose that preference, they just realize that they have it. We call people like you "in the closet".

 

I have some news for you, you’re an idiot.

 

Maybe because you’re 44 and you already know yourself completely it isn’t a problem for you and you wouldn’t dare go there.

Tell that to the people who had high speed internet porn while still growing and developing.

The preteen and teenage mind is very dangerous and vulnerable. Exposing yourself to certain things can definitely warp and confuse you before you know who you actually are.

A person who is not actually gay or into whatever it is they find themselves into will always end up returning to themselves (once they let go of their addiction) after they emotional and mentally mature and deal with their problems.
It can be quite traumatizing to a person in hindsight.
I don’t think normal gay people get traumatized for indulging in something in line with their sexual orientation.

Also I don’t get why you take your rude and overly judgemental opinion as a fact. What your saying is only true in your own little world where your experiences and ideas differ from others.
You’re pretty close minded about the topic so i don’t see the point of arguing about it.

 

99.9% of us get this. This guy has had a bad day/week/year and is lashing out.

 

Well, the vulnerable preteen and teenage porn infested minds will have to learn dealing with this, because their aquired and conditioned preferences won´t magically go all away after 90 or 180 days of abstinence.
I have watched douzens of married "in the closet" guys paying and getting entrance for their secret sex life, before there was any high speed internet at all. They were all married with women, but sneaking into the porn shop to get their stuff and have anonymous fun with each other. At least they had the balls to do that, compared to you people. I´m not living in a "little virtual world", in fact I have probably talked in real life with more strange people about their personal sex life or their secret desires, then at least 95% here. I´m not closed minded about sex at all, I despise cowards, who look for excuses to blame any other reasons (evil porn, HOCD), instead taking responsibility for their behaviour. I judge no one, for whatever he gets his kicks from, but I judge "men", who chicken out to face their own desires.

 

......one mans opinion.

 

Sounds to me like you go both ways.

 

I read threads like this and I feel like Bill Murray in Groundhog Day, reading the same arguments being put forward over and over again until someone gets bored or it devolves into name-calling and open hostility.

To the OP, the best advice I can give you is to simply stop worrying about it or thinking about it, as overthinking does nothing but make the situation worse no matter what your sexuality is. As someone with quite bad anxiety (not sexuality related mind you, I mean in general), I find that trying to look at things objectively helps a lot and can help get rid of irrational thoughts and impulses. Its impossible to tell you what your sexuality is based on words, only you can decide that for yourself, and removing porn from the equation can help a lot. I do have to say though, in my opinion, looking at someone and objectively assessing that they are attractive isn't the same as wanting to fuck them. I'm sure that we can all think of male celebrities that are handsome, just like women would be able to do the same for sexy female celebs, and it wouldn't mean that the people doing that are gay. Wanting to be in a sexual/romantic relationship with the same gender makes you gay, being able to acknowledge the appeal of another man in a neutral sense doesnt, and honestly obsessing over this will just build insecurity.

 

Assuming to know all about anyone or everyone is a close minded thing. Personally I would refrain from judging anyone in here.

And that's all I have to say about that.

 

well i know that and admit that ive watched crossdresser porn and transwoman porn and sm disgusted after and am changing first off . secondly ive encountered them in real life and dont get aroused and also when i think anot them as well . only on scrren i SOMEWHAT get aroused . i somewhat agree with you but i know im straight because i get horny in real life to women