I am in a committed relationship with an awesome guy. We do not yet live together, and we only have sex with each other one to three times per week. He has been out of town since Monday (will be four full days). For these four days (Monday-Thursday), I have been completely non-PMO/semen retention, and I absolutely love it. I feel so good in every possible way. He returns to town tomorrow (Friday) and it is almost a certainty that we will be having sex, possibly Friday, Saturday, and even Sunday. I am actually dreading this. While I love having sex with him, and the orgasms are amazing thanks to nofap, I don't want to orgasm and feel blah for the few days after. In the past I was able to fake orgasms. This was easy since I was addicted to porn and masturbation, and my cock was not that sensitive. However, it will be almost impossible to fake it now, as I am sure I will cum shortly after entering him since I am so sensitive. I feel bad about wanting to fake it, since his greatest thrill is to see and/or feel me cum inside him. For those of you in a relationship, but who also have a strong desire to retain semen, how do you handle this situation? Any words of advice will be greatly appreciated!
As a person on the other side of things I have to ask you, why lie? Maybe discuss your concerns with him? If he truly cares about you then whether you have an orgasm or not shouldn't be his greatest thrill. Just being with you and enjoying time should suffice I'd rather have my partner open up discussion to decide what's best for both of us than to even think about lying. And if he is aware of your goals and supportive I'm sure he can help you reach them and he be satisfied too in some way.
Thank you so much for the thoughtful response. What you say makes a lot of sense. I think, at least for now, I am ok with doing no-PM, and allowing orgasm with him (though I am dreading how I will feel after). At some point, though, I know I will want/need to go full no-PMO/Semen retention--I think I will take your advice and be completely honest with him. Thanks again!
Very welcome!!great job on no PM, stay the course! And O is draining, alot here have suggested karezza and honestly it's a beautiful thing that I'll suggest too good luck and enjoy your weekend!
