90 day challenge starting today who is in?

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Saoconrado40, Apr 12, 2019.

  1. Robullfrog

    Robullfrog Fapstronaut

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    Watched. I often don't jerk off to it, weird as that might sound. It's just to numb the anxiety.

    (Not sure what WP/WPM means)
     
  2. Robullfrog

    Robullfrog Fapstronaut

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    Not sure what PMO means.
     
  3. Healing_Waters

    Healing_Waters Fapstronaut

    Guys I relapsed last night. It was all the way (PMO) so I will reset myself back to 0 days. It was only one PMO session though (my usual relapses have been something silly like 5-6 before... going on a total bender) so I guess that's "progress" in a sense. Or at least a silver lining of sorts. I don't know if this means that I am kicked out of this challenge... but yeah that's what happened. I was dehydrated the entire day and I think that's kinda what did me in the end (plus I drank alcohol so I was probably negative on the net consumption of water that I've set up for myself as a discipline). Anyway... you guys be the judge whether I get to stay or if I should GTFO this thread.
     
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  4. PepeKappa

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    Just restarted as well. I think you can still stay with the group even if you relapsed though.
     
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  5. !!!10years!!!?!

    !!!10years!!!?! Fapstronaut

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    It is my first day, I hope I could live a PMO free life
     
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  6. Craig Values

    Craig Values Fapstronaut

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    Guys, I’d stick with the group and finish a few days after the 90-day mark; I joined late so I’ll be a couple days passed the start date @go4aRUN setup (Remember this is for you and we are here to support one another). With that said though, if the group is a few weeks in I would let everyone know and find (or create) another group to restart. My opinion anyway :)
     
  7. fortify

    fortify Fapstronaut

    Good luck buddy! We all have the same hope :D
     
  8. fortify

    fortify Fapstronaut

    Yeah, surely you can. Repeat again and try to think of that list of members as your opponents who are competing against you to get to the top of the list. ;)
     
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  9. futuremd

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    I feel like shit, my mind is clouded and my motivation is at an all-time low. Hopefully this post will remind the future me & others of the consequences of PMO. Good luck comrades. Per ardua ad astra ("Through adversity to the stars")
     
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  10. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    Without porn
    Without porn and masturbation

    Porn, masturbation, orgasm
     
  11. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    @Robullfrog basically, you have to obstain from porn and masturbation OR porn, masturbation and orgasms to be a part of this accountability group. Obstaining from porn alone is not enough.

    If I remember correctly, your counter was set for PM or PMO earlier. I am sure everyone would be fine with you staying in the group if you go back to obstaining from PM or PMO
     
  12. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    OK, the results of votes for far are:

    8 = FOR
    0 = AGAINST
    12 = have not voted yet

    I think it is safe to say this has been aproved, so I have added the rule to my first post.
     
  13. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    By the way, I think anyone should be able to put any rule/suggestion to a vote. It's a nice way of doing it, so please feel free if you have ideas :)
     
  14. Ghost79

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    Vote for wet dreams as a relapse :D
     
  15. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    Seems legit :p No-one gets to 90! :oops:
     
  16. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    My personal thoughts on some of the things discussed recently:
    • I don't think anyone should be kicked out for having a reset or a relapse.
    • We should support each other and share tips - both what helps and what leads to reset/relapse.
    • I don't see a problem with people joining late if places become available. We are likely to have big differences in day counts in any case, if someone has a reset/relapse long into the challenge.
    • I think the challenge can run for as long as there is somebody willing do the admin. That way somebody who joins late or does not hit 90 straigh away won't be left hanging :)
     
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  17. MarcoM

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    Obviously FOR +1
     
  18. Ghost79

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    What is the difference between reset and a relapse?
     
  19. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    • Relapse: For addicts, the act of returning to bad habits after a period of improvement. This is a serious word. Examples would include masturbating to porn (for a porn addict), significantly disrupting your life due to excessive masturbation (going on a 20x binge and skipping work), risky masturbation (masturbating in public), and other similarly life-disrupting activities due to an addiction.
    • Reset: Failing one of our programs/challenge. This stemmed from the act of resetting your day counter badge back to day one. If your masturbate during your rebooting program, this could be called a reset.
    From glossary https://www.nofap.com/glossary/
     
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  20. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    You are in the right place, man. I am sure you will become the you you want to be. Stick with your commitment and good luck :)
     
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